Alright I need you gyes help. I cant figure this. Me and my husband have been trying to concieve for the past two months (actively) and last month I had thought I might be pregnant, Thought I was having implantaion bleeding and ended up having a late period. This month I charted my Temp, charted my cycle, and used an ovulation kit and all signs told me that I was ovulating on Sunday the 14th of this month. We had sex lots, on the 8th, 10th, 12th (twice), and on the 13th (twice) and once on the 14th. I wanted to make sure there was enough of them floating around :)
So with that said, today I went to the bathroom for a #2 (sorry for being so graphic) and when wipping noticed pink on the tissue. Not anyother time after that. My next period isnt due until the 28th. I am regular. I know implatation bleeding occurs at 6-10 days after ovulation but, could this be the embryo being rejected by my body seeing as how it happened last month as well, just not as soon after my ovulation then??
2007-01-19 12:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I dont want to get my hopes up. Yet when it happened today my heart just dropped into my stomache. Im starting wonder if theres somthing wrong.
2007-01-19 12:48:11 · update #1
ok maybe i came off frantic. I am fairly relaxed and i enjoy doing all the charting and testing its fun. my main concern is what does that mean?? Ive never had this happen to me until i started trying to concieve and its worrying me is all. just trying to see if that happened to anyone else.
2007-01-19 12:53:57 · update #2
please relax, you probably wont get pregnant for 6 months til a year. MOST women do not get pregnant at the drop of a hat. We tried for 5 yrs, we tried chlomed and all that, NO results.
Things play a factor, health, stress, depression, weight, all those things.
If you dont get pregnant in 4 months ( 6 month mark ) go to your OB and talk about your concerns, first thing they will want to do is a sperm count on hubby, do a phsyical on you and then go from there
Honey I know its hard and frustrating, but 2 months is a drop in the bucket compared to 5 yrs of waiting, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT ?
If you have to wait, it will be so worth it. 5 yrs of trying we got pregnant after I lost 54 pounds and bought our first home, almost 6 months after my son was born, I was pregnant again!
good luck. email me if ya want!
2007-01-19 12:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by BoTToms UP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a stressful time when you first start trying to get pregnant! I remember it well. It truly can take up to a year. Try to keep in mind that everything has to go exactly right. The timing with the egg, the sperm and then it has to implant properly etc. so if you try to go into thinking it will take a year, you will not be as stressed.
Honestly, the chances are slim that you would notice the impantation bleeding. You definitely would not see a miscarriage through pinkness on the toilet paper. What happens if it does not implant is that you have a period.
There really is no way to know if you are pregant until the day you are supposed to start, which is the 28th. I would stock up on pregnancy kits (since I am sensing you will be anxious to know the results :0). I have tried taking early detection pregnancy kits (ones that are supposed to tell you before you are late) and they did not work for me....So I personally think they are a waste of money.
Just to give you some tips...I noticed you said you had intercourse on days 8-10-12 etc. Not sure what your prime ovulation day is but keep in mind if you have too much intercourse before ovulation, your husband's sperm count may be lower on the peak day (which you do not want). The best sign of ovulation is the thick clear white discharge that will take place roughly 14 days prior to the last day of your cycle (If you have a 28 day cycle, day 14 is key and so forth). That discharge helps the sperm travel to where it needs to go...If you have never noticed this discharge or do not have it, you should probably keep up with the ovulation detector. Try to time your frequent intercourse for the day before...primarily the day of and the day after.
Getting pregnant can be super frustrating...It is the one thing we can not control in life...I hope it happens for you soon!! Good luck! And try not to worry about it...
2007-01-19 13:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by LoveMyKids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, relax! There's nothing you can do until your period is late. Do something to take your mind off it.
If you want, take a First Response pregnancy test on the 23rd, but remember, up to 60% of all pregnancies result in miscarriage before the 6th week.
2007-01-19 12:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop stressing about it. Two months of trying is nothing. It can take up to a year, even with perfectly healthy and fertile couples. Just relax.
2007-01-19 12:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by a heart so big 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have been implantation bleeding. I noticed mine the same way. (ugh) lol
If you don't start, try a first response around the 25th and good luck
2007-01-19 12:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by wheezerthill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you really want to be pregnant. And I wish you luck.
But, you've been trying for only two months.
Relax. Have fun with it. Don't make it into a job, yet.
2007-01-19 12:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by kabmiller@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go see your doctor
2007-01-19 12:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by njyecats 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋