First, I'm sorry you are receiving such flip answers to questions you obviously have and are of concern to you. And people wonder why kids are afraid to ask questions!! I am a health/sex education teacher, so I answer questions like this all of the time. The human reproductive systems and sex and all of that stuff is pretty complex--it's OK to not understand how it all works. Here is my answer:
No-- there is no possibility of you becoming pregnant under the scenario you shared about getting it on your hand.
To your other question: The tissue you are referring to is called the hymen. It's a thin membrane that can be ruptured LONG before a girl ever has intercourse. While intercourse CAN rupture it, so can gymnastics, riding a bike, using a tampon, inserting fingers (or anything else) into the vagina can all rupture the hymen. Many, many girls hymens are not intact when they first have intercourse. Yes, if you have intercourse the sperm can and will enter and can cause pregnancy if the girl has ovulated (released an egg) when intercourse occurs. When you say "when it happened" is the "it" intercourse? Did you have intercourse when you were menstruating? While you are not likely to become pregnant during your menstrual period, no one can tell you that you absolutley can't. ANYTIME you put a penis in a vagina you could potentially become pregnant (even if the guy does not ejaculate inside of you). Hormone cycles, ovulation, etc. are somewhat predictable, but not always and not in all women.
Tell you what, your question makes it sound like you are a little "concerned" about some choices you have made. That uneasiness you feel should be like a "warning sign" for you that maybe you are doing some things you know are risky and may not be a good idea for you right now. Listen to your heart, but also pay special attention to that little voice you hear as you make your choices. Feel free to post any other questions you have and don't let others who, in many cases, don't know any moe about sex and how the body works make you feel like you r questions aren't good ones
2007-01-19 15:05:10
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answered by chrissy25 5
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First, intercourse is not the only possible "delivery system" for sperm
However, if a drop of his sperm and under some conditions, if a drop of his lubrication (AKA his pre-c*m) gets on your labia, all bets are off. Sperm will find their way and find that mature ova if they are given even half a chance. So, unless you touched your labia, no.
However, you are into dangerous territory here, with regards to conception. I'm giving some links about contraception and safer sex. You both need to read them.
As well, between menarche and menopause, women are always on their menstrual cycle. The cycle doesn't end until menopause. If you mean that you were menstruating at the time, then that scenario about the drop of his sperm of lubrication can still allow those sperm an off chance to meet a mature ova.
2007-01-19 21:02:47
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answered by Anonymous
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I is possible to get pregnant even when you have sex for the first time. Also, you can get pregnant even during your menstral cycle.
If that clear liquid, happened to be the erection liquid, and it got into the vagina, there is that possibility of pregnancy. And even though sperm can live for awhile in the fallopian tubes, sperm are not able do super tricks, such as swimming in a bathtub and fertilizing an egg.
Yet, it only takes one sperm to fertalize an egg, there are thousands of sperm in one drop of the erection liquid.
P.S: Sorry for all the big words. I just want to prove my point.
2007-01-19 20:50:38
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answered by paris_kitties_pink 2
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Getting sperm on your hand is not going to get you pregnant unless you rubbed the sperm inside of your vagina.
Even if you are a virgin you may or may not still have a hymen, and the hymen does not completely cover the vaginal opening...if it did you couldn't menstrate....so it is not a barrier for sperm, so if he ejaculates on your vagina the sperm may enter and you could, although very unlikely, get pregnant.
Pre-ejaculate does have sperm in it.
To protect yourself against STD's he should be wearing a condom if you are giving oral sex. Please be safe.
2007-01-19 20:45:03
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answered by paganmom 6
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First question:
No chance.
Bathroom:
Using the restroom and cleaning won't help or hurt the chances of pregnancy.
Virgin:
Yes, verrrrrrrrry verrrrrrrry small chance, and you might want to redefine virgin. Oral is called oral sex because it is sex, not in the lovely grey areas that most modern teenagers like to think isn't.
Menstrual:
Yes, but again, a verrrry verrrry small chance.
In the wonderful world of the 70's, oral and other forms of sex happened in a relationship after intercourse. Thank the internet age and porn for changing that around, making it part of the foreplay.
2007-01-19 20:47:13
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answered by brothergoosetg 4
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No you can not get pregnant. You can only get pregnant if the sperm in actually in your body, and that can only happen during sex, or you could be artificially inseminated by a doctor. In almost every case, you can not get pregnant while you are on your period. Your body is cleaning itself because it is not pregnant.
But, you do not have to have sex in order to break your Hyman. Most girls Hyman break when they are young from force such as riding a bicycle or something like that.
2007-01-19 20:46:06
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answered by sfb_wolfpack_girl 2
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It's not likely but sperm can swim like nobody business. If they get anywhere the correct area, they will take off towards home plate. Of course you have to be ovulating around this time for it to do anything. Try a condom next time.
2007-01-19 20:45:06
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answered by zib 2
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My advice to you is stay away from sex until you are married. Don't do it just because. If you are smart you will realize it is not worth it now. Save yourself for that special man you fall in love with. You would want him to be untouched until marriage wouldn't you? A guy that finds out you are a virgin at marriage will honor you and love you more than you think. Everytime you have an intimate relationship with someone you leave a part of you with them. Had I known what I know now I would have stayed away from sex until I was married. Please don't make the mistake just because others do it. Sex is just the act of exchanging bodily fluids, do it when you marry someone worthy of you.
2007-01-19 21:06:21
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answered by Mark T 6
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If you are a virgin, you don't need to worry about being pregnant. You need to wait until they teach you the real answers in your health class.
2007-01-19 21:23:31
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answered by Lemme tell ya... 5
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No....questions like this is why abstinence only sex education is a bad idea....kids are going to do it anyway but they won't know how to protect themselves or even the basics about sex and getting pregnant.
2007-01-19 20:44:08
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answered by Katie 4
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