am15 n am haven a baby!! HELP!?

Answer 1

you gotta keep your legs closed and what do you want me to do about it! What do you need help in??

Answer 2

For all those people replying to the question.
1. You arent this person so you have no idea what she is going through. She came to this website to get some help. She doesnt need people putting her down. Everyone makes mistakes. Being a teenager these days is alot harder then 10 years ago.
2. Babe, Dont take what some of these people have said today to heart.They arent you and they have idea. You will be right. You see lots of teens on the news raising there babies. So just hang in there, Everything will be okay!!!

Answer 3

Oh my god. Oh and by the way ignore the mean people, just stay calm and and have no regrets, just go through this. Regrets lead to nothing and I seriously doubt that you'll learn something that you can do again (getting pregnant at 15). I sure hope the guy that had sex with you hopes to help you and your baby, and that your parents will too. If not, look for help like a place you can call or go to, or ask from help from your friends. I sincerely hope this works out for you. I'd say that that was stupid to do, but there's nothing else to do. I hope everything is okay though. I'm not a female but i'm sure it's the right thing to do, and listen to "just me", stay in school. And please think before you even consider abortion, you have to remember you should have thought about the consequences.

Answer 4

I had my daughter when I was 19, no matter what don't quit school you'll never go back! If your not in a situation to raise it then consider adoption, it would allow your baby to have an amazing life with over loving parents and you the life you deserve. If your family would be willing to stand behind you while you finish school and maybe college then keep it and raise it. Your still learning yourself and need to experience life a little more so you need more then ever to depend on your family. bring it up to them and ask what they would be willing to do. A child is a huge responsibility one that I have trouble with at 23 and my daughter is now 4 so you'd think I'd have it under control by now. You'd be amazed how your family will help you, my daughter helped me bond with my mother. Good luck! And talk to social services they'll help you with insurance, food, housing anything pretty much.

Answer 5

I was 15 when i got pregnant, and just recently turned 16 and am still pregnant but close to having my daughter.. Just take things easy, the damage is already done, you just gotta deal with it nd make the best of it, i have my family, they took it hard at first, esp. my mom and that was understandable, but they will accept the fact that they cant change anything now, just work hard in school, and dont drop out, get a good education so you can have a good life for your daughter or son as she grows.. if you need to talk i am here, i know how it is, and its very scary, but its an amazing experience and everything happens for a reason.. but me & her father arent together anymore, well we are forced by law not to be together, but you gotta think about your baby now if you have the situation where father isnt really there.. but take it easy, talk to your parents, dont get madd when they get mad and hope for the best.. & be the ultimate parent you can be even b4 he or she is here.

ooo & dont take any crap or anything from anyone, people will look down on you at times but dont let them or what they say get to you.

keep your head high and email me if you wanna talk.. =]

Answer 6

If you are in labor... go to the HOSPITAL NOW! If you mean that you found out you are pregnant.... I have been there. I found out I was pregnant with my first child when I was 15, I was 16 when I had her. It is a difficult thing to go through at such a young age.. but can be done. You need to talk to your parents and let them know, they will find out sooner or later, and the longer you wait, the longer you will stress about it. I became pregnant at 17 with my son, had him at 18, pregnant at 19 with my daughter and 20 when I had her. I am now 23 and pregnant with my fourth child. I should add that all my children are for the same man... my husband.. We have been together for over 8 years now, and we have a wonderful, happy family, we just started exremely early.

Your parents will be angry, concerned, scared.. but when it is all said and done.. they will be there for you and will be your biggest form of support. You yourself are probably going through mixed emotions, sort of excited, worried, scared crapless.. it's not going to be easy.. it will be tough.. but worth it. You can do it. Don't listen to anyone if they say to have an abortion PLEASE. This baby deserves to have a chance at life. If you feel you can't take care of this child.. there are loving couples out there who want a baby more than anything else, but for one reason or another, can't have one... give the baby to a family who will take care of and love him/her.

You need to go to the doctor and get on prenatal vitamins. You are considered high rist since you are so young. With my first baby.. same age as you... I was in and out of the hospital with premature labor, because my body was too immature to handle all the stress of pregnancy.. my daughter was eventually born 3 weeks early and weighed 5 pounds 6 ounces. You need to be under the care of an OBGYN, as soon as possible.

Good luck, and I hope you make the right decisions, and everything works out for the best.

Answer 7

I see not many people are taking you seriously huh some are but not a lot.Well talk to a counselor.Talk to your parents ok. Do they know?When you have your baby if you go with abortion thats a different story go on birth control pills after that if your parents are ok with it they can watch your boy or girl or both while you finish school but you cannot lay it all on them ok that will be bad.College well you might be on your own you never know though.Just be a good parent but be a smart kid too ok.That is all I can tell you but still I hope it works.

Answer 8

Not much we can do to help you just stay calm talk to an adult that you trust and if you think that you are not ready to be a mom get into contact with an adoption agency so that you may be able to pick the people who adopt your child good luck hope things work out for you and the child

Answer 9

u'll feel upset about having a baby. but it's not the end. just take care of the baby n continue ur life. i no it's a big responsible. but aren't u happy to have a company, someone to talk to. people make mistakes but this is the terrible one. but u can fix this. don't ever make this mistake again in ur whole life. good luck!!

Answer 10

well next time don't have unprotected sex, tell your parents, go to your local planned parenthood, and start preparing for change. you cn'at go to school if you don't get support from your family, so make sure you talk to them. if you really don't want it and it's not too late, you could have an abortion. there are a lot of emotional issues tha go with that tho. you need a counselor, so go to planned parenthood! they can help!

Answer 11

Ok first ask ur self this ? are you ready to be a parent? can you afford it ?and are u going to have moral support from friends and family ? if NO then you have options just think really hard make a pro's and cons list .......Maybe this will help