OK, here's how it goes. My bf is up in WA, and I'm down here in LV!!! All my friends are saying I should dump him and move on, 'cause we never get to see each other any more, but I don't really want to. More than one of my friends have said that he's a sucky boyfriend, because I'm turning 16 in four days and he's never even kissed me. I'm not sure what to do... should I tell my bf it won't work, or should I wait it out?
2007-01-19 12:07:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stay freinds with him, stay in touch - maybe it is meant to be? maybe not time will tell. In the meantime you need to meet and date other people you are too yourng to sit home and wait. You will never know if he is the one unless you see others. I know I have been there!
( I married the long distance girl years later - 22 years of marriage) but I needed to test the other waters - so did she...
2007-01-19 12:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Slim Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very long distance. I think what you guys had should be left in the past. Move on. Love should not be all about kissing, hugging, cuddling, and sex. What your friends says about your bf shows what kind of girlfriend or boyfriend they will ever be. Im sorry that it came out in such a rude manner. Love is about caring. I dont think you want to lose your first kiss in such hasty and required manner because you are turnin 16 soon, indeed it should be very romantic and true. Between you and your bf, what is meant to be will always find its way. Let him go cos long-distance relationship is not something you want to be engaged with.
2007-01-19 20:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships suck! I've been in too many and always looking back I wish I hadn't wasted my time. Live your life. If you're meant to be with him it will work out in time, no need to force it and sacrifice fun times. You are young, do you really see it working out long term and are you willing to wait for it? He might not actually be all that serious about the relationship, especially considering you haven't even kissed. At this young age, it might even just be assumed that you won't be waiting for each other. Good luck and have fun moving on!
2007-01-19 20:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to be waiting on some guy. Your 15... you have alot of life to live... and you and your boyfriend probably werent going to end up together forever anyways. So dump him, better to deal with the pain now then later. And after discussing it with him; I'm sure he will feel the same way =)
-goodluck!
2007-01-19 20:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long distance relationship is just not going to work out. You are going to turn 16 and you have many guys to meet and more relationships to try out. So definitely move on.
2007-01-19 20:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by vruiz16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still young honestly you will find someone else. Just focus on you school work and you will be fine. I remember when i was sixteen and i had boyfriend he wasn't thinking the same thing that i thought. When their young the are in player mode. Sum it up just focus on you. a good guy will come to you. If it is meant to be it will be. Let fate work out in it own way.
2007-01-19 20:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by ladydragon0608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 16 you need to live some before you start saying you a boyfriend. He just maybe sucky.
2007-01-19 20:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off. Youre hardly 16, and shouldnt be handling a long-distance relationship. It'd be understandable if you were in a serious relationship with him, but seeing as you arent, break it off. Besides, whos saying that he isnt dating someone on the side?
2007-01-19 20:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by supergeek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and give him a chance. You don't wanna dump him, right? Your friend's saying has a reason. But important thing is you and your boyfriend. You don't care your friend's saying if you don't want. I wish your wise decision.
2007-01-19 20:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16, unless you really think this is going anywhere I would let him go and look for other guys closer to you. Sorry for being harsh. If you want this long distance relationship stand up to your friends, don't let them trash on your relationship.
2007-01-19 20:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by mave_dawg07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋