Okay so only serious answers please. I am very depressed i have no one to talk 2 about this. my only friend who is my best friend and my other friend like eachother. I liked her and she likes my friend he told her that he cant go out with her cuz of me (which he made on his own becuz he didnt want to ruin our friendship) and now the girl called me and said that i ruiined her life and she hates me. I am very hurt and i only want my friends to be happy and i no i they went out i wud be very hurt and i cant say how i wud react. My best friend who i am really close with i dont want to lose him as a friend and i dont no wat to do? sudi just let them go out and be miserabe as i am already depressed cuz everything has gone wrong in my life and this friendship was the only thing that made me go thro each day. he had alot of trouble decideding wat to do which suprisied me cuz we were such gud friends and i wud never do that to him. help!
2007-01-19 12:02:16 · 6 answers · asked by razorsharpdut 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them exactly what I just read and they'll either take you back as a friend, or they're not worth having as friends.
2007-01-19 12:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. would you rather lose your best friend or the friend thats a girl..? it's not your fault that she likes your best friend and that you and your best friend have so much more in common then you and that girl..I wouldn't lose something that is as good as friendship but with the girl there are so much more fish out in the sea...but I don't know the whole situation but do the right thing and don't worry about what the girl has to say just keep the best friend
2007-01-19 12:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you’re not bad. It just that you cant tell your heart who’s to love. It happens for a reason. But I think there is still a way that you can save your friendship. If the girls don’t like you then let go. You can find another girl… much better… much much more than the girl you like today…. And who will love you also in return.
You should talk to your best friend and tell him that you are favorable to what he likes and to what will make him happy.
Remember this…. It’s much easier to find a girl (its just like fishing in the ocean) than finding a good and real friend.
2007-01-19 12:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u love this girl u would want her to be happy even if it means u not being happy. and u should tell them that they should go out and maybe it wont work and u'll get lucky but at least u will have ur friends.
2007-01-19 12:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by dream21 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
a real true friend would not do you wrong.'
talk it out with both and get it settled.
if you lose a friend or both then they were not your friend./friends
to start.
2007-01-19 12:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmm....What?
Just stay true to your real friends.
2007-01-19 12:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋