*ahem* .. so this alex guy in 3 of my classes at school just started talking to me. we sit beside eachother in one class. and i do talk alot to anyone around me. so u know; it was like regular "classmates."
then one day he asks me if i have aim or anything. so i gave him mine and he gave me his aim, msn, email AND youtube so i was like "okk..." i realize he talks to me ALOT on aim like everyday. one day he asks if i could sit at my table at lunch because "he doesnt like where he sits now" so he does and hes been doing that with 2 of his other friends.
one day on aim he tells me "the only reason i sat there was so i could talk to you." so i block his screenname. he makes up another one.. i block that one. he makes up ANOTHER one. i switch to my other screenname he doesnt know about. he sent me an email then CALLED me. i faked my brothers voice and i said i wasnt home. so now.. i have no choice but to tell him to get out of my life. but how do i do that? i just really cant stand him
2007-01-19 12:01:24 · 23 answers · asked by cortni 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry, you may have already acted upon the situation, but I found this as an intresting question...
You may/may not have told Alex to "get out of your life" already, but either way, I think you owe this guy an apology. From the looks of things, he was just trying to talk to you and build a relationship. I could see that you didn't want to be with Alex, but all he could do was try, right?
If you are going to tell him to get out of your life, just tell him that you don't feel all that comfortable with him talking with you, and that you'd rather be left alone.
And him stalking you is out of the question, unless he constantly asked for personal details and still followed you around even when you asked him to stop beforehand.
And if you tell him to get out of your life, wait 2-4 days afterward. If he doesn't talk or interact with you in any way during that time, you can be for sure that he wasn't stalking you.
2007-01-21 08:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw the guy likes you. I know you're going to hate this advice but I think you should be nice to him. Not overly nice, but nice enough so he's happy enough then let him know when you want to be away. Tell him you'll talk to him in class but you have other plans for lunch. Just think: if you liked a guy and were trying to get his attention, would you want to be blocked? Be nice!
2007-01-19 12:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand completely cause when i was in 8th grade im in the 11th now this boy was in my class and im always nice to people so when he asked me a few questions i would answer them well he started tyrin to talk to me more and more then asked for my phone number i told him no because i wasnt allowed to talk on the phone with boys at the time well he started followin me to classes sittin at my lunch table without bein invited and i had told him that i didnt want to go out with him twice well i told my friend about it and they told him to leave me alone because i dont like him and that i didnt want to be with him. well basically the moral of the story is you can come right out with it or tell some of your bold friends to tell him the more you stall the more he'll get attached
2007-01-19 12:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have led him on by telling him that he could sit by you at lunch in the first place. Just tell him that you don't really want to be friends with him, and that he is making you uncomfortable by wanting to talk to you all the time. Or maybe you could get one of your brothers to do it.
2007-01-19 12:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you REALLY feel. I've been stalked before REALLY. I'm serious.
The reason is because this person stalks you to find out more about you and doesn't know how to REALLY talk to you in person face to face in reality. Maybe he is not allowed to be seen with you for some reason. Maybe he can't because the b**chy media and press won't leave him alone. Maybe he doesn't want his privacy to be exposed to everyone.
I know. You can't stand being stalked because THAT IS INVADING ON PRIVACY REALLY. There is REALLY a limit to these issues REALLY and you can REALLY take it to court SERIOUSLY.
Love Amie A :-)
2007-01-19 12:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you didn't like him at first you shouldn't of given him all that
information. you should of stopped the friendship right off.
you gave him high hopes .
now you don't want him as a friend or anything.
you should tell him how you feel and to leave you alone or you will
tell people ..
and ignore him completely
2007-01-19 12:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need be careful when letting him know there is nothing there and that were just trying to be friends.Make sure you have a friend with you when you talk to him.Tell the friend if you take one with you everything first, before talking to him.
2007-01-19 12:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by wolfdragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email. Tell him how you feel and that you want him to seek other friends. If he continues to bother you or shows anger toward you, then tell your parents and let someone in authority tell him to leave you alone.
2007-01-19 12:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a conversation with one of your friends, and make sure that hes in earshot, and commence talking about your boyfriend thats into extreme fighting, and make sure that he hears and gets the point, this way he will be too scared to mess with you anymore, and yet this will also help you avoid any wierd confrontations with this nerd
2007-01-19 12:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by waterboy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this does not sound like stalk to me, it sounds like u gave him
leadway when u gave out your emails.
Be nice to the fellar and tell him u got a boyfriend and he will leave u alone.
Dont be so mean to him, he has feelings too.
be mature about yourself and not be selfish and babyish.
2007-01-19 12:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋