well first of all he dumped me because i supposely was talking behind his back which i thing thats was just a excuse to dump me but alot of my friends tell me you were to pretty for him but i still think of him and i really do want to for get with please help me ...
2007-01-19 11:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by Heather R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being dumped by him was a blow to your pride whether you are aware of it or not. It could be you are being protective over your pride that you still think of him...and of course, you're wishing things could've turned out better. Another thing is, you have a lot of time, love, and effort (in other words, a lot of YOURSELF) invested in this relationship and it is hard to let go of that. It is known that the more you think of an ex- the more you are likely to get depressed. SO, when you find yourself thinking of him, look the other way and think of all the reasons why you are better off without him. It just feels sucky right now BUT things will get better. I promise you that!
2007-01-19 11:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by MamaBearKnowzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you still think of someone but time or new experiences/people make you forget eventually. if you think about it rationally - if you think he was looking for excuses to dump and you have that insecurity (whether it's true or not) is the relationship really worth it anyway? if there's a niggly thing running through it it's more of a stress than a joy. i see people in bits about relationships and although it's easy to say 'just break up' it actually makes sense. because where is the rule book that says you have to have relationships? nowhere. it should be a joy not a stress, not work. obviously things aren't perfect all the time but they should provide happiness for most of the time.
2007-01-19 12:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by PookyBoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not your never really going to get over your ex-boyfriend. I thought that I was totally in love with mine and then he told me he cheated. And I found someone much more better, but I still think about my ex. It's just something that you won't forget about if you really cared for him. Which it sounds like you have. I wanna forget to because I dont want to remember the things that he did to me but no matter how hard I try it never will work.
2007-01-19 12:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My little Heather That is as lite as a feather whos bueaty and charm have had men fight to the death and end up in the funny farm. Just to be clos to you yes heather you are the BOMB! All I can say is when your the dumpee and not the dumper it adds a whole new twist on things dosent it. we allways due what your talking about when we had some thing and it leaves us!
You know you allways want what you cant have or dosent want you. gotta have it so we can show it we work than we can dump it .
2007-01-19 12:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by walter c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you probably are still thinking about him because you care for him and you didn't want him to break up with you but the best way to forget about a boyfriend is to get a new one your ex is probably happy seeing you stressing about him and you cant show him that because then it is like he won the battle but at least try to get over him and see if there is any one out there better for you!! good luck!!
2007-01-19 11:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take several months to get over him and you just have to accept that. Hang out with the girls, find a hobby, go shopping, just do whatever will make you smile at the time. If you find yourself constantly thinking about him, don't be hard on yourself because its normal. Learn something from that relationship and take your better knowledge into a new one.
2007-01-19 11:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start thinking with you mind and not your heart. sometimes our hearts are too soft to realizie what the mind is saying. think of the reasons why you want to forget him, stick to these reasons and don't let the soft part of your heart take over. this is the only way to get over him if that is really what you want to do. stay strong and committed to what you truly feel. good luck.
2007-01-19 11:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever the reason your Ex came up with to end your relationship-real or not-, it sounds like he didn't have the class to talk to you face-to-face. Listen to your friends and upgrade to a higher class.
2007-01-19 12:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by Barry.itt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just memories and they never leave you. Tell him you still care for him and if you get a negative response then you will know to look for someone else.
2007-01-19 11:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because a part of u still luvs him it will be a hard to forget him. but u will in the near future. (trust me i've been there with my ex- girlfriends)
2007-01-19 11:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by andrew hutchinson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋