I checked his phone and got her phone number then intercepted his phone bill and took notes on how often he talks to her. He only talks to her during the week and during work hours. I am very close to him and he has never mentioned this persons name. I asked him if he was seeing another woman and he said "are you crazy"! Oh and I am 8 months pregnant and he has been uninterested in me sexually since I started showing so thats when I started getting suspicious. What should I do?
2007-01-19 11:46:49 · 14 answers · asked by I'm her mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is a little childish, however some people will lie till they die so the other person may be forced to find out.
get solid proof before you bring anything to the other person. Photos, wire taps etc. Be ready to break up with them because if your not going to there really isnt a point is there?
2007-01-19 11:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by thenovice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her yourself. Have a friend call her and snoop around with suggestive questions. You are pregnant and you are hormonal, and you DO NOT need to be in on the conversation.
"are you crazy" as an answer in my opinion, is not a good one.
"ohh baby, of course not. You know how much I love you, I am sorry I have not been very intimate, but I am worried about hurting the baby, and I will make it up to you" in my opinion, would be a more appropriate answer.
He may not be physically cheating on you, but emotionally he is. Some men realise how supportive they need to be during a pregnancy, while others walk with their heads in the clouds.
2007-01-19 19:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny response from him when u asked him about it, same thing in the same words were also said to me. making u feel there is something wrong with u because u asked him a ligitimate question based on the phone bill. i would be very suspicious, but really what can we do if our mates want to cheat on us? seems like you aren't going to get an answer from him, so call her and ask her.but be prepared to hear something that might be hurtful. so sorry for what u are having to go through, really there is nothing we can do if they want to cheat on us, makes us feel as if we have no control at all, and we don't really.
2007-01-19 19:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you saw from his phone bills and he never mentioned her name. I think there is something going on with them - only lovers can talk a lot NEVER FRIENDS! Ater you confronted him, of course he will say NO - upfront tell him to call the girl and introduce you to her. If he will get mad - he is defensive. Better to leave him and take care of your baby. Your baby is your life - dont ruin that just becuase of that worthless guy. If he is seeing another girl (you are not yet married) how muc more when you get married. It is just a headache.
2007-01-19 19:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOH a moral dilemma! Do you show that you lost a little trust, or do you just pray it's a business call. Bummer, I honestly don't know what I would do. Ummm If I had to make a decision I would confront him with the girls name and number, ask who she is then really watch his excuse. Not the words, but the way he answers. Is he nervous? Mad? Confused? Shocked? If he is mad, then your probably safe and it's just business. If He looks nervous, call her and ask her who she is and what her relationship is with (insert name) don't call him your husband, or you will appear as a freaked out wife and give her a green lite to pursue him!
2007-01-19 19:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to sit down with him and communicate. I think it's time that a good conversation is due and a good explanation to you. I
2007-01-19 19:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her.....but be sure you want to open that can or worms....maybe wait till after the baby's born....you don't want anything to happen to the baby (emotions)
2007-01-19 19:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just to see what is going on and tell her that you are not mad you just would like to know .
2007-01-20 01:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes give her a call if you really want to know the truth.
2007-01-19 20:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her you are pregnant and ask her why she talks to him and do the same with your fiance
2007-01-19 19:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by taby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋