Or just Forgive and never forget
or try to forget but never forgive
or just Neither
2007-01-19 11:33:38 · 44 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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Bubbles is a lover... not a fighter!
LOL (or SOMETHING like that!)
2007-01-19 23:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Spanky C ® 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find it relatively easy to forgive but I never really forget if it's a bad hurt.
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2007-01-19 11:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it easy to forgive and forget because I have a very forgetful mind and I usually just forgive people because I certainly need their apologies for forgetting!
2007-01-19 11:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~V@NN@H~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is God's Will if it is meant for me to never forget, but is first my choice to Forgive.
"Forgive & Forget"
Turning it over and letting God...
Praying to God, gave me the stength to finally 'Forgive' &
Gods grace "helped out with the forgetting part" too.
Once I learned how to Let Go and Let God..
each time I need to forgive it became easier with time, and patience. The very best thing (almost a funny thing) about forgiving is the surprised / puzzled or accepting reaction you get back from the person you communcate with when you let them know that you Forgive them for what wrongs they have committed.
It is a great feeling for everyone involved, its affects may not be fully noticable at first... but it is satisfying and completes you when you make amends.
It is God's Will if it is meant for me to never forget, but is first my choice to Forgive.
2007-01-19 12:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Joy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always forgive and try to forget. Some things though you can never forget
2007-01-19 11:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by cma80 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can forgive when the anger is gone. I think I will never forget it will always be there, I just won't feel the hurt as much but I will never forget how much I did hurt
2007-01-19 11:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by fnygrl74 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on the situation really...but unfortunately ive noticed that i seem to be able to forgive pretty easily...cuz i usually understand that the person who hurt me had their own reasons...but i cant seem to be able to forget too easily...
People say its not possible to really forgive if you dont forgive...i´d have to disagree though, cuz i think that the hurt from something can stay with you for a long time, but the anger towards that person who hurt you can fade, with time, sometimes....and i also think in a way, its a good thing not to forget, cuz then you´ll know better next time...
But thats just my opinion, anyway.
Hope this helps. =)
2007-01-19 11:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither because I rarely forgive or forget, but It depends on the situation, the people involved, and the emotions.
2007-01-19 11:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to forgive and forget. Forgiveness hasn't been something big needed in my life currently; yes, I commonly fight with my sister, but we always end up laughing together sometime later, without even saying sorry. However, I find it hard to forget bad memories...especially the ones when I feel very sad or extremely emberassed.
2007-01-19 11:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by Shauna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving is the easy part...forgetting is a different story
2007-01-19 11:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Mary Jane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are times when neither is easy but there are times when you do forgive but not necessarily forget...I think in those times you forgive not for the sake of the other person but more for your own sake so it does not cause you more pain...forgive yes, forget, never!
2007-01-19 11:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋