My hubby and I were going to basketball game tonight when we started to get ready.I was getting ready and I had to get all the kids clothes out(4 little ones mind you).He was finished and started gripping saying "Hurry up its getting late".He helped put the clothes on them but I wasnt finished yet.He got mad and started saying things.But why does he always ask me where things are when he can just look for it and save me some time to get ready.I didnt say anything bad because I wanted to avoid all this.Now I'm here at home and they all left.Because I'm not finished.I just dont appreciate all the remarks made to me.I dont know I just had to get that off my chest since it just happened and I dont have anyone else to talk to right now.Thanks for listening or should I say reading..; )
2007-01-19 11:29:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I didnt know we were going until last minute.It happens like this everytime we go somewhere.Plus I like to get out when we can as a family since I'm a stay at home mom.
2007-01-19 11:36:48 · update #1
Simply, in my opinion, men...mind you not all men...but many men are selfish. Please take my advice....I have been there and done that...I missed out on alot of good times with my little ones because I was to hurt or not in the mood to be around hubby...I know exactly what you are talking, but don't miss out on anymore good times for you, enjoy your children,and if hubby wants to be happy too, Great!
2007-01-19 11:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by espee65 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, the best thing i can tell you is toprove him wrong. Hes going to feel stupid and small. Time to fight back, treat HIM like a kid. Make him realize that you are an adult too. A basketball game shouldnt be THAT important. It comes on Pay-Per-View anyway. When he gets home, talk to him nicely and tell him how you feel and hwat you can do to resolve your issue and live together in peace, like a marriage is suppose to be!
2007-01-19 11:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Allure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the only way a man can feel superior is to make those around him feel inferior. Maybe complementing him at the time for his help will lessen this problem from happening-- in time
2007-01-19 11:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Barry.itt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well things aren't gone to change unless you communicate with him and let him know exactly how you feel. You have to let him know that his actions are directly affecting your emotions. If he is a good one he will listen and improve for the sake of your marriage. I hope that helps. Take care and God bless.
2007-01-19 11:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are just overgrown kids themselves. If you have time, and know about it ahead of time, try to get ready before everyone else. It takes a lot of planning to get everyone ready with that many kids.
2007-01-19 11:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn your place. He shouldn't be so nice to you. It is your fault you got pregnant 4 times. Quit whining and be a better wife.
2007-01-19 11:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Its really simple actually. They are so wrapped up in what they want to do that they lose sight of the bigger picture. Happens to me all the time.
2007-01-19 11:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by reallocojava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
over controlling mixed with laziness.
2007-01-19 11:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very welcome!
2007-01-19 11:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by Dancingsun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋