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everyday i hear them fighting, and everyday i keep thinking they will divorce.....but unlike the movies where the kids are crying when there parents fight...i dont mind....why is that?

I don't support either side in what ever they are fighting for.....im just not caring...why?

2007-01-19 11:12:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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maybe you do care a little or you wouldnt be asking this question. If in your memories you used to care more and feel that you dont as much now...its because after living with something for so long it gets a little easier to bare. Deep down, though, i think it still bothers you. You have just learned to cover it up and cope.

2007-01-19 11:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by justme 2 · 0 0

Probably you had enough of it and are no more afraid of the consequences of their selfish attitude of fighting all the time and that you are now at the age that you will be able to stand on your own if their quarrels reach the normal conclusion as it always does with some exception.

2007-01-19 11:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ottawan-Canada 3 · 0 0

Its just gets to be a part of your life, like a habit. My parents are the same way. It's like they feed off the energy from the fight. It wouldn't be normal for them not to fight. You just get to the point when the fighting becomes the norm.

2007-01-19 11:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Truth 2 · 0 0

Maybe you feel that if they keep fighting, they WILL get a divorce and that would be a relief to you, considering the situation you are in now. It has to be affecting you on some level, even if that's what it is.

2007-01-19 11:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Probably because they do it so much, and nothing ever comes from it. You're numb. It would be different if they actually went on to the next stage and got a divorce.

2007-01-19 11:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0 0

Maybe you've become callous to it. Maybe it's just called self-preservation. If you have no emotional ties in it maybe you won't get hurt. Maybe as long as they're fighting they're leaving you alone. Sorry to hear that your parents fight everyday.

2007-01-19 11:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by C C 2 · 0 0

How old are you? I'm sorry that you have to live with this.

You could be immune to them fighting and know what to expect afterward, or you let it be because you had enough of it. Take care sweetie.

2007-01-19 11:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0 0

Probably 'cuz you've become desensitized to it. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing. On the bright side, at least you don't feel any pain!

2007-01-19 11:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by 821 2 · 0 0

That is your way of dealing with their selfish ways of fighting.

2007-01-19 11:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Dancingsun 3 · 0 0

I feel you try to stay out of it and block your feeling's which is good worry about your self

2007-01-19 11:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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