My friend is shallow and i hate when she says omg look how cute that guy is and then saying ew to an ugly guy. I am so sick and annoyed of it. So MEAN!!!How can i tell her to stop? I told her that she should judge people by looks and she said shut up us beautiful people deserve to be treated best. HOW CAN I STOP HER FROM BEING SHALLOW???
2007-01-19 10:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't... the only way she is going to learn her lesson about that is by losing friends over her attitude. You might want to rethink your friendship with her. If you can't stand how she acts, do you really like her?
2007-01-19 10:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, in my experience, there's no way to stop shallow people. It's just something you have to live with. Yeah, she's being really rude judging people on looks and saying the beautiful people deserve to be treated best, but what can you do? Maybe give her a taste of her own medicine by doing just the opposite. You could say "eww" about the "beautiful people", stating that they must be stupid and superficial, while going on and on about how ugly people are the smarter ones and deserve to be treated better... maybe she'll get the point.
2007-01-19 10:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by GeekGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find the main person who she "Judges" the most and get him or her to confront her and point out her flaws- physically and emotionally. Then tell her that's what she gets and the prettiest people do the ugliest things so it doesn't really matter because i bet that same cute boy she saw wouldn't save her *** from falling off a bridge but the computer geek from the cyber cafe will!
2007-01-19 11:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Allure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way for her to change is for her to be judged like that by people who she thinks is beutiful. for example bob could go up to shallow friend and be like you ugly and she will never be shallow again. not as easy as that causr you not bob but anyways there is no real way unless everyone kept calling her ugly and judging her and even then bob is not sure if she would change.
2007-01-19 13:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think you can. She has to want to change. You can't do it for her. Tell her you might quit going places with her if she doesn't knock it off. Maybe that'll get her to stop. I mean, if she says things like that to people and you're with her, then people will think that you are the same way because you are hanging out with her. Just how it works.
2007-01-19 11:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick an apple in her mouth...she may still be shallow, but at least her big mouth will be shut.
2007-01-19 10:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real? I doubt it. If you are, you need a big slice of humble pie. And, stop calling people "asswipes".
2007-01-19 11:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh. you are soo shallow!
just say shut up
2007-01-19 10:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋