there is this girl who comes and sits with me and my friends at lunch. she was nice, but shes now really annoying and noone really likes her. we dont want to be mean and tell her to LEAVE! what is the nicest way to kinda give her the hint that, you know ......go sit with someone else
2007-01-19 10:40:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes you do need help... what is wrong with you? You shouldn't be the one telling her to f*uck off, if nobody talks to her and nobody likes her around she will get the picture. Let her do what she wants you bi-tch!
2007-01-19 10:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, this TOTALLY happened with me and my friends. Well, there's this rule at my school that you can't save seats, and when she went to go get her lunch, she had her stuff on a seat that she wanted. And so we just got some other friends of ours to sit in that spot. And when she came out, they just said, you can't save seats. SHE NEVER SAT WITH US AGAIN. I mean, she was still kinda friends, but she was real distant. I really hoped that helped. It worked for us.
2007-01-19 18:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by XD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh! I hate this problem, it happens to me all the time. When she sits down with you, just don't really talk to her, sounds harsh, but it works good. And when she tries to talk into your conversation, just give her the shortest possible answer and get back to who you were talking to.
2007-01-19 18:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to take a walk with you. Tell her that you would like to be her friend, but you need to know all about her ... family, religion, foods, etc. She will either let you know what is really going on, or she'll be gone
2007-01-19 18:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by shepherdjohn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to her one on one. Maybe she thinks you guys like the way she is acting. I feel you should never push people away until you know the reason for their actions.
2007-01-19 19:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by wolfdragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she says something try not
to pay any attention to her she will get the
hint
2007-01-19 19:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by HIPPO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋