I get really disappointed when people arrange to do something with me then cancel out. I know things happen, but with me when people want to do things with me I look forward to it hence it makes me really sad if it doesnt happen. I asked one of my friends to join me for lunch, she told me thanks, but her daughter was really sick so she was staying home with her. One of my other friends on her way home, saw my friend and her daughter plus another friend at the petrol station, they were going for a drive. So why do people lie to avoid my company. I find it very depressing and get down when things happen like this. I am branching out and finding new friends, but this all takes time. Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with me?
2007-01-19 10:40:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
some people are just rude, and those aren't the kind of friends you want, don't give up, you will find some friends it takes time, and when you do find them it will last a lifetime
2007-01-19 10:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by crazylarry88 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that there is anything wrong with you. A lot of people act the way your friend(s) did. I think that you should just tell them what is on your mind. I know that's not what you asked but that will help you out. Your friend did what she did because she didn't think that she would get caught. Some people take advantage of a good friend. They want to hang out with them when there is nothing to do and no one better. You seem like your a nice person and you may rethink about who you want as your friend. Try talking to people with the same personality as you. There are a lot of people out there who are faithful to there words and promises. I hope everything works out for the best. Take care of yourself.
Britney
2007-01-19 18:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get really disappointed when people arrange to do something with me then cancel out. So why do people lie to avoid my company. I find it very depressing and get down when things happen like this. your not the only one. it's part of our life be happy.
2007-01-19 18:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by dandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun They Probably Just Are Too Afraid To Be Around You Because Something about you discourages them. Forget About It And Go Find Some Friends Who Like You For Who You Are. I DO NOT AGREE WITH THE RUDE AND NON_INTELLIGENT PERSON WHO SAID YOUR FACE. SMARTEN UP
Much Loveâ¥
I would Hang Out With You ANYDAY
2007-01-19 18:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by daniielle..♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't put too much thought into it. Perhaps there was more to that story. Like maybe your friend was out getting medicine for her sick kid and your other friend happened to see her while she stopped for gas on the way home. You never know. Maybe you should call her up and ask her about it instead of letting it get to you like this.
2007-01-19 18:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be you .. sometimes its the other people ... also you dont know why that person was taking the ride ... it may have been that she had somewhere to go that was important. Besides if you get rejected like that it can be because they are not meant to be your friend ... maybe your right move on, but dont feel there is something wrong with you.
2007-01-19 18:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by talent4god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, people are flaky and the older you get, the worse this gets because out lives expand and we start doing different things with our time. Just don't call them as much or whatever, blow them off a little and do your own thing. If they want to be your friend, they'll make an effort.
2007-01-19 18:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think its just them there just into them self u should branch out i know how u feel i wasnt invited to my cousin b-day party and lied about it i cut them from my life i feel fine now it will be best to drop them like a bad habit there not worth having your company there just selfish people who dont care about your feelings so now u do have to find new and approve friends trust me u will feel better i do i just opened my eyes hope u do to
2007-01-19 18:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, maybe it is just taking you longer to adapt...i went t hrough the same thing.....Listen...DONT BE SO DESPERATE!!! If you seem like you are desperate or always saying let shang out or whatever that can cause people to not want to hang out with you either.
2007-01-19 18:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by green and blue knight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT IS NOT YOU! SOME PEOPLE JUST DON'T HAVE CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS. I HAVE A FRIEND WHO DOES IT TO ME ALL THE TIME, AND AFTER FIVE YEARS I STILL MAKE PLANS BUT KNOW SHE WILL NOT COME THROUGH. JUST TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND LET IT GO.
JUST KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND IT IS NOT YOU, CHIN UP AND BREATHE
2007-01-19 18:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Heather C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋