I miss hanging out with my bestfriend, he and I used to talk all the time and hang out often, then he changed was critical and judgmental of me, not for anything I have done but for the things that I have always done.. for who I am. So we argue quite often and it breaks my heart, he's not the sweet guy I used to know, he's become cold and sometimes heartless towards me, we have talked and are going to hang out soon, I am quite nervous, because now I feel I can't be my goofy self around him. So I said to him, I really miss hanging out and laughing and just being good with you, and I asked him do you miss hanging out with me to? And he was so mean, he said I was manipulating him by asking him that question and it would be up to him when he wanted to say that to me. I shouldn't ask those type of questions. Then went on to say cruel things as in you only say things to people to hear them back, which is untrue. That him saying we'll hang out soon should anwser that. What do I do or say now?
2007-01-19 10:08:56 · 10 answers · asked by Sassy D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
screw him. you shouldnt have to walk on pins and needles with him. there is nothing wrong with it, i mean you guys once were good friends so .. he needs to adjust his attitude at the door. i would forget about him, dont hang out with him. maybe he will come around or maybe he does miss you and doesnt want to give you that power and tell you. guys suck dont they esp guy friends
2007-01-19 16:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I understand that you are hurt but he didn't cheat. Since, at the time you two were not together. he just needed someone to talk to. That's all. He realized what a big mistake he made so he came back to you, ask you hand in marriage, so that should prove to you that he loves you a lot. Don't leave him because you will be making a big mistake.
2016-03-14 08:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that you should tell him how you really feel... look him in the eye (command attention) and tell him how he's been treating you and how he makes you feel. MAKE HIM LISTEN. after this confrontation, if he still treats you in ways other than you think he should, i think you should try to move on, as heartbreaking as it may seem because some people change for the worst. if he doesnt change the way he acts around you, why should you hang around someone who is making you feel worse than you should? you need friends to inspire you and make you feel good about yourself... not tear you down. good luck.
2007-01-19 10:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by frenchtoast88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to really question your friendship.He does not sound like a friend.A friend does not treat you like that.Unfortunately people change and sometimes it is for the worst don't let him bring you down or change the good person that you are.Good luck.
2007-01-19 10:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really tough. Sounds like he has some issues he needs to work out. It probably doesn't even have anything to do with you. I couldn't imagine what I would do if my best friend suddenly acted like he didn't want to be around me anymore or didn't like me anymore.
2007-01-19 10:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by tooqerq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geeez, May be your friend is into some recreational drug use, If you say his personality has changed so much, I don't think what you said was inapproriate, I think your friend was WAY out line, I think you may want to find out what is really going on with your friend.
2007-01-19 10:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case , I will say all good things have come to an end- - it's time to move on- something has change with him according to what you type , move on -give the friendship space
2007-01-19 10:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person were your best friend then they would not treat you like that. It sounds like he doesn't want to be friends anymore and maybe that is why he talks so bad to you.
2007-01-19 10:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but your grieving right now. Youve lost something and you want it back, and if you cant have it back you want to work to get it back, and if you cant work to get it back you want to pretend that things are the way they are. What you need to do is stop. Stop trying stop hanging on you will not fix anything, but only be seen as desperate.
2007-01-19 10:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Psyc Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem so sweet .. :( dudette, u shouldn't be hangin out with him anymore.. maybe he thought u guys could be more than just friends and when he realized it wasn't meant to be he just lost interest. just find a better one and .. be evil :p u should say that it bothers you and you don't need his mean **** around anymore
u go!
2007-01-19 10:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋