My boyfriend and I have a long-distance relationship. With a plane it takes about an hour. I saw him last for the New Year, which we spent at his home town at his parents house and celebrated the New Year with his friends. I left his place about 2 weekends ago. I want to oraganise a new meeting but I am not sure if this is the right time to ask him? It's because he has been going through some stresses from work, he did not get promoted and since his boss has told him this on Wednesday, he has not been very happy. He has been cold and distant and he has been giving me all indications that he wants to be left alone. He told me today that he is sorry but he hopes that I understand. He told me today he misses me but he has not mentioned yet about our next meeting. We usually see each other once every month but sometimes I feel impatient and I press for planning our meetings. However, I would be the happiest if he came up to me and told me he wants to meet me. I find it hard to wait?
2007-01-19 10:04:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One of you needs to move or move on.
2007-01-19 14:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you relally trust him then let him be alone , unless you think there is something else going on then surprise him and go over there and spend time with him !!! You can do this instead of letting him know that you are going to where he lives!! good luck !!
2007-01-19 10:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be left alone - leave him alone for now. Don't be clingy.
2007-01-19 10:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure nothing else is going on?
2007-01-19 10:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋