my girl friend is 21 and we have been friends for 4 years and together as a couple for living together for a year. Now she wants to get married but I dont think she is ready cause the way she see things at 21 is not the way she will see them 5 years from now. but the 28 year old is more seasoned and has her own place , car, things, job and in her 3rd year of college all being a parent. I have a daughter thats 1 but she is not my biological daughter. I want to remain in my daughters life but her mother is young. am i wrong for wanting to leave. Beside that we broke up before because of this and I tried to make it work again but i think it was a mistake. what should I do.
2007-01-19 10:02:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It does not sound as if either of you are ready for marriage, if you are with this twenty eight year old let the young one go so that she can find someone who wants her and can stay faithfull to her. You will have changed in five years time everyone does life does not stand still. Are you sure you are not seeing the older woman as an easier target for you as she has everything, that does not make for happiness, I do not think that you love any of these woman set them free.
2007-01-19 10:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you that over life you want to walk into a ready made one or do you want the excitement of your own adventure? The way your 28yr old sees things now will not be the same in 5 yrs either - unless she intends to bolt the doors till then and not experience life. If it's over with your girlfriend, so be it, but do it because it's over not because of someone else.
2007-01-19 10:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your demonstrateing your own lack of maturity . Your reasons for wanting to have a relationship with this older woman is that she has stuff. Secondly no one will see anything the same way 5 years in the future regardless of age
2007-01-19 10:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Psyc Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind and then tell the 21 year old your decision but don't keep her dangling on a string. That would be unfair on her.
2007-01-20 22:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you have answered you're own question. I do not see anything wrong with what you have written. life is to short to be unhappy with someone. Good luck.
2007-01-19 10:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good lord man, whats to think about leave the women who loves you with the daughter you love(even if shes not yours) and go with the harlot that gives good sex .
yes your right 28 year old hands down !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 13:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are making excuses I think you want to finish with her only you want people to tell you to.Well make your own mind up.I think she will be better off without you.
2007-01-22 08:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you do what you want.
2007-01-19 10:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋