I want to know this question because I don't know how to fix it!
2007-01-19 09:53:04 · 5 answers · asked by Alaina D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay so the thing is i had a friend that spend the night one night & my sisters friends had cigerets & my friend is 13 & smokes(i didnt know she smokes) & she took a pac & she brought the cigerets to school & got caught with them & said that my sisters have parties & put cigerets in her bookbag! The party part his true but not the cigeret part & the girl said i smoked so now i have a big rumor about me smoking & also i hate the parties because they mess up my house than my mom makes me clean up the messes...ITS HORRIBLE! pleace tell me what i can do!!
2007-01-19 10:16:01 · update #1
What does your mom allowing your sisters to party have anything to do with your reputation? do they spread rumors about you? IDK! add details please!
2007-01-19 09:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all. They're totally sleeping together if they're 15/18 and spending the night at each others houses. I know you don't want to hear it, I have a 15 year old neice too, but it's more than likely true. And that is statitory rape. Next time I'm around Mr. Sly, I'd casually slip something in about statitory rape. LOL. But that's just me. You need to sit your sister down and explain to her why you think it's wrong. Have a calm conversation with her and tell her that you think it's wrong because of all your reasons. Personally, it's wrong because they're both at a completely different stage of development (mentally and physically). Three years in age difference isn't much but it is when you're that age. If your sister doesn't get it, then maybe talk to her husband if she has one, or your parents and maybe they can talk some sense into her. Or... take your neice to the mall one day and have the conversation with her yourself. Don't go all motherly on her, just tell her your reasons and explain to her why you think it's wrong. If he treats your child badly and your gut instinct is telling you this guy is bad news, then more than likely you're right. So talk to your sister or someone. Heck, maybe even pull him aside if you have to. I would, I love my neice like she was my own and I'd kill for her, therefore, I'm willing to risk her getting angry at me for a few months over her being safe.
2016-05-23 22:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your sisters' problem, not yours. Make it clear that you are very different from your sisters and don't let others judge you be their bad behavior. Hold your head up high and be proud.
2007-01-19 09:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell ur mom how u feel and let her know that partying is bad for ur sisters and its affecting YOU and how people percieve u and that its a problem.
2007-01-19 09:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by lala girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rise above their reputation.
do what you want, carve your own path!
2007-01-19 09:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by itsALICE! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋