My signifacant other is verry outgoing at work, so much so that it is bordering flirting. I have been told that this is his game face, but when he is at home he is much quieter. My question is, is this normal behavior? Or should i be concerned?
2007-01-19 09:47:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its normal... I was in sales for 7 years... I was the BIGGEST flirt at work. My husband didnt care... but Im pretty flirty all the time. Im hardly ever quiet at home, but now that I've been with my husband for a long time... I am quietting down more.
2007-01-19 09:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes you need to flirt to get ahead, but as long as he goes home and spend the rest of teh day with you, so what's the. problem. And to start of whenyou have been told might be a lie to just make you mad at him, so to make sure go to his office and don't tell him and watch what he does. I bet what's I been told is going to swallow her pride. You know gossip is the main reason there are some many people always fighting and separating. Next time when someone tells you something make sure it's true before you do somethingt hat you will regret later.
2007-01-19 17:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on his job. I'm quite a bit different at work, but then, at work I'm dealing with people in a very different way. Someone in sales who gets paid commission would want to do whatever it took to seal the deal. That is going to mean making women feel comfortable, and making them like him. That is going to look like flirting a lot of the time. But if he's a UPS delivery man, that's quite a bit different.
2007-01-19 18:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone acts differently when the situation warrants it. Perhaps his job requires him to be a more outgoing person in order to succeed. I wouldn't sweat it..is perfectly normal! In fact, I'd wager a bet that YOU'RE a different person at work then you are at home. Perhaps not more outgoing, but more professional or more reserved. We all do what we have to in order to earn a living.
2007-01-19 18:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by digdowndeepnseattle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal ... if he works in sales or real estate or with other people and his job depends on how out-going and friendly he is ... it probably is just his game face ... I work in sales & boy let me tell you ... I've had old men tell me they would sign anything I put in front of them ... I have to take customers out to lunch and be entertaining at the same time - but yet professtional ... it's hard to balance both ... make sure he's not crossing the line .. and things will be just fine ... !
2007-01-19 18:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest my husband is the same way. Don't assume anything until you catch him in the act. I did and he stopped he wasn't cheating or anything. But I dont know why men do these things! Good Luck!
2007-01-19 17:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many of us that deal with the public have to be friendlier in public, home is where we can relax and don't have to be all happy happy joy joy
2007-01-19 17:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it. My husband is very different at work and with his work buddies. He's a lot more quiet when I'm around.
2007-01-19 17:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋