my crush tells me that she's been in a really bad relationship for 8 months and she's gonna leave him when she has the strenght to do it. the funny thing is i believe her. it's just really funny that she didn't mention him until now and we've been flirting with each other like everyday for 2 months. she just came out as bi to herself so i don't know if that has something to do with their relationship going wrong in the first place.
2007-01-19 09:27:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if she does break up with him...id wait a couple of weeks to make sure its entirely clear and they are both over each other...then make the move.
2007-01-19 09:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been flirting for all this time and she never bothered to mention to you that she has a boyfriend that "she's going to leave when she gets the strength?" What if she never gets the strength, gets cold feet, or worse for you, dumps the guy and a year down the road, you find out she's dumping you for some guy "when she gets the strength?" Actions speak louder than promises and she doesn't sound like she really knows what she is or what she wants yet if she just accepted herself as bi (which means she likes both guys and girls, not that she's a lesbian). I don't think you should be looking long term here.
2007-01-19 17:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by sapphire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't.
If she was having feelings and it was the cause of problems in her relationship with her bf then you could be a hated person to him and whoever else liked seeing your crush and her bf together.
Your gonna get into a mess you didn't ask for since she never told you about him till recently and if he finds out she was flirting with you the last 2 months then ya.
Maybe you should stop flirting... be her friend. Shes gettnig herself into a mess.... dragging you and him into it. Maybe shes gotten too deep shes unsure how to get out.
Help her.. find out what she really wants..... :-) If shes in a bad relationship due to OTHER reasons then she doesn't need him... let her know your there for her no matter what :-)
Hope it works out for you guys :)
2007-01-20 02:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by tashasw79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to keep your distance on this one I am afraid. If she is in a straight relationship, she is still questioning her own sexuality, and why would you want to wait around for something to eventually happen that may not.
2007-01-19 17:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are OK with her to still have her boyfriend while dating you. Also, if you want an exclusive relationship and you want a serious relationship, I'd suggest you wait that she becomes single. You don't want to be used and have your feelings hurt.
2007-01-19 20:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Aeirlys.You almost always end up with a broken heart.
2007-01-19 18:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date straight girls. They're more trouble than they're worth.
2007-01-19 17:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No
2007-01-19 17:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kedar 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont do it
2007-01-19 22:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by yeaurhot06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋