last friday in skool i got written up, well today i got written up again. i still haven't told my mom about my first write up, now i have a sceond one. wat do i tell her now.
2007-01-19 09:27:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ummm my mom dosn't ground me or nothin, she just like yells and then thats about all that happens.
2007-01-19 09:34:28 · update #1
written up, are u serious. it means u get get sent to office and stuff, like ur doing bad things in skool so u get sent to the office.
2007-01-19 09:45:51 · update #2
Hi emawee, it's me Lori. Just ignore them. I get written up for disrespect all the time. I don't ever tell my dad and just wait for the principal to call him. Then they gang up on me and scream at me and beat my butt and give me detention. It does no good and the cyle repeats. At least they aren't beating your butt.
2007-01-19 09:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 2⤊ 6⤋
It is always better to tell the truth to your family. The reason for this is that when they hear you tell them good things, it makes them proud. But, if you "hide" the bad things, it looks like you are lying. Can you really trust anyone who lies to you all the time?
If you tell your mom what happened and that you tried to correct it the first time, she will be more understanding than if she hears this from the teacher or principal. Parents are never happy to hear bad news from the school.
I am a parent and a teacher, I would be proud of you if you told me the problem right after it happened. Then I would know that I could trust you to be honest and I would think of you as being more mature than other kids.
If you think that you will cause mom a hard time, get it over with now. She will respect you for coming forward like an adult!
2007-01-19 09:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my mom has always been the kind of person who freaks out before hearing all the facts... and has completely made up her mind before she's heard half the story... so i think i might be able to help you here.. just keep in mind that your mother was your age once, too... and she'll understand if you just tell her the flat out truth about whatever it was that happened. if it was something super-unnecessary, then explain yourself by saying that you know it was a stupid thing to do and it won't happen again. but don't half *** any of it, cos if she finds out the entire story from, say, a friend's mom... she'll be like twice as pissed at you. but you can definitely expect some sort of punishment for it... kind of like getting a speeding ticket and going to court: if you just admit you're guilty and stay honest, you'll get the lowest fee/ penalty. :)
hopefully i helped.
good luck, sweetie.
2007-01-19 09:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by termite choking on the splinters 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you and your mother both need help. It's really sad to hear this issue doesn't bother you or your mother......
You need to sit back and discover what you're doing wrong to get written up all the time and then change that behavior.
Education is extremely important and you shouldn't ignore this importance.
2007-01-19 10:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her. It doesn't sound like you're going to be punished. Why don't you just stop getting in trouble at school, then you wouldn't have to worry about telling her. Simple! Good luck to you.
2007-01-19 09:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not gotten written up in my life!!!
!lol!
I dont know what to tell you!!!
If I was in you position, I would tell her the truth because the worst that she could so is punish you.
2007-01-19 09:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by I ♥ volleyball 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is go and be honest with her, if you don't and she finds out another way,she will be very hurt and not trust you again, as well as her punishment for you will likely be worse. I have 3 teenagers, I know how I would feel. Good Luck
2007-01-19 09:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Get your act together and stop getting written up. Tell her you messed up and feel really bad. Expect to be grounded. You've earned it!
2007-01-19 09:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by -Bibee- 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Either way, you're in trouble. She will go easier on you if you tell her up front, rather than letting her find out.
Calm down at SCHOOL and you won't have to be in this mess anymore.
2007-01-19 09:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Girl.................... what you NEED to do is "ACT YOUR AGE", clean up your act and learn from mistakes.
Getting written up means you are being a disrespectful little punk. Please, for your sake, get it together............ then you don't have to worry about telling your mother "anything".
..................... now go wash your mouth out with soap.
mb
2007-01-19 09:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your mom needs to do more than just "yell". Military school is my suggestion.
- Bride
2007-01-19 10:20:44 · answer #11 · answered by Tori 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋