Why does society belittle us and disrespect us? I am talking about the booby grabbing and booty pinching and slapping, as well as the intimidation, and this is not just at school but the mall too and is obviously endorsed by the school adminstration and local police department.
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2007-01-19 09:26:36 · 12 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am small and it's not easy to protect myself. Some people say I look only 13 or 14.
2007-01-19 09:40:57 · update #1
No one should do that to you ever, it's sexual harassment! If anyone does that to you in school you should tell someone. When I was in 7th grade I had a few things done to me (a particular guy going down my shirt, etc). And I reported him, the school really didn't do anything except remove him from all my classes. About a year ago I finally figured out that I could have pressed charges on his ***, I had to look at his face all the way until my junior year of highschool until I dropped out and went into homeschooling. I was always touched and disrespected by guys I hated it.
For other places I would just slap them or tell them off, they still have no right touching you. It's still sexual harassment and rude.
2007-01-19 09:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by mtoWCS09 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Society doesn't bellittle you. But immature boys will.
They grab and pinch because they don't know how to express themselves. Also, when they gather in a group, there is almost an overpowering of uncontrolled testosterone that makes then try to on-up each other. When this happens, they get very dangerous. Add drugs or alcohol to the mix, and there is little they won't try.
The school system and police department DON'T condone it. Neither should your parents.
The next time it happens, scream at the top of your lungs. At the very least, it will scare the boys off, probably wetting their pants that the cops/security/teachers are going to have a cow. Just don't do anything that would justify them attacking you back, like trying to kick one of them where it counts.
Also, travel with other girls, and steer clear of them. And stay away from the mall. You are probably there to "be seen", and what you being seen at is getting pinched, grabbed, and slapped. That doesn't sound so impressive, does it?
Talk to a guidance counselor at school about this, or the principal. Talk to your parents. If they are grabbing your boobs, talk to a police officer. That is a real crime, and you can have the boy(s) prosecuted for it.
You are not a doormat. Don't let yourself be treated as one.
2007-01-19 09:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Garylian 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree that its a huge problem I see women who let men slap their rear and be all over them like women are toys...
I was raised on a farm so I'm pretty tough and muscle-y and although I would never start a fight or even go at it with someone who was trying to provoke me as I'm relatively easy going and don't easily get ticked...
being a bit busty myself if I were in a mall or anywhere and was grabbed on the "booty or booby" areas someone would get a total WWF butt kickin' cuz that would just pissme off!!!
18,Fla.
2007-01-19 12:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by luv4horses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because girls either #1 put up with it or #2 most of them like it.
If some boy EVER did that to me i would turn around and ***** slap him or kick him in the nuts...no if's and's or butts. I would procede to tell him show a lady respect and your momma shoulda taught you better.
I used to waitress @ Texas roadhouse and would have guys hit on me constantly....if they did i would let the manager know, and if they even toughed me wrong or looked wrong he would ask them to leave.
I think a lot of it would be that girls just sit back and take it.......you need to let them know ITS NOT OKAY
2007-01-19 09:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
From what you're asserting, i might in basic terms tell him. I recommend, it must be that he's completely a mushy guy, with the hand grabbing and all, yet while he's kinda shy, i might doubt that. i might say decide for it, the worst factor that can happen is that he says he does not such as you back
2016-10-31 13:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it is getting worse.
I thought for awhile that women were fighting to
be know for more then our looks and then you look at the
media is doing and how people dress.
I am not saying that it is right for someone to belittle another
for the way they are dressing....
I am saying to be respected we should respect ourselves too.
best wishes...stay strong...
2007-01-19 09:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should not be acceptable. People obviously have no respect for other people. It isn't right. I really don't know what else to say, sorry!
2007-01-19 09:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o if someone fuking touched my *** they would be so sorry they did. i almost beat someone up today after skool, i would have killed her too if this boy wouldn't have pulled me away from her. u should fuking kick their *** if someone touches u again. cause i am one of the smallest in my grade, but that sure as hell don't make me scared to fight back or ne thing, they are actually scared of me so they don't wanna fight me. kick their *** nxt time someone touches u.
2007-01-19 10:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am sixteen. If people walked around grabbing my boobs and pinching my butt I would do something about it. This doesn't even make sense.
2007-01-19 09:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by steduc543 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it is where you live because no one was like that when i went to school and no one does that now at the same school i went to because my 17 year old sister just said so
2007-01-19 09:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋