I am upset. I recently moved 2 yrs ago. At the school i then went too every one had been there for 8 yrs. Every one there all had there own groups. Since they had known each other most of there lives. I could not be accepted anywhere.I then started high school and have some friends but no close friends. I have not gotten a phone call or been to someone's house in two years. I am trying to keep in touch with my old friend's but they live so far away. I had so many friends there. I am not mean and have not said 1 mean thing to anyone.
2007-01-19 09:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by please0 w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound exactly like me when I was in high school! I know how you feel everyone already seems to have found their click and you haven't. Join some clubs or sports, academic, groups or something or anything. Make it a point to start talking to people, anyone, any class. I am 28 now and I got an email a few weeks ago and I got an invitation to my 10 year reunion, And I thought how sad I never made it a point to put myself out there more back then. I see all these people with their best friends since school and I never made any. Now that I am going on 30 my first instinct was to not go because I figured "Why should I, I never got to know anyone back then and no one will remember me." But, I was laying in bed the other night and thought about it. I decided to make it a point to go, Even though I don't know anyone, If I don't go I will be doing the same thing I did in high school. Nothing can stop me from making a new friend now. Don't be how I was and look back in 10 years to regret it. Ask someone if they want to go have coffee or something it's cheap, or be like, Hey, I am gonna catch a movie this weekend do you want to come along? Something anything, I have spent 10 years lonely, even with a husband and kids, sometimes you need friends to help you get through the rough times in life. I didn't even have a real wedding 'cause I had no one to invite. Learn from my mistakes. You still have time for a close friendship with someone. Hang In there, and good luck! ~Lived and Learned
2007-01-19 10:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well teh only thing you can do is go to school functions, festivals, join school groups and you will start making friends pretty soon. Maybe your beautiful and the girls are jealous and the guys are imtimidated with your beauty. SO ahve patience and you'll have more than enough friends soon enough, if not Im me anytime I will be your friend
2007-01-19 09:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to join a group at your high school... make your own group. gain some self confidence and im sure you'll do fine. if your old friends havent tried to contact you in a while, then you should forget about them.. forget about the past. Just think about the future, and open up to new people
2007-01-19 09:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by answer! this 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That must be really tough, but since you are the a freshman (like me) try not to stress too much because it really affects your grades when you feel bad about yourself. introduce youself to a group of girls you think are about the same popularity level as you and open up and give lots of comliments on thier clothes and jewelry or thier hair. and once you know them all pretty well invite them to dinner at your house or at a resterant. they will soon find out that you are a fun friendly person and will open up to you. hope it all works out!
2007-01-19 09:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm my nice peers sure, however despite the fact that I love the women I hang around with, I wouldn't utterly believe them. It sounds terrible however I recognize for a proven fact that they regularly gossip approximately every different. Either means is say I have a few peers who're both reasonable climate peers and a few who're like sisters to me.
2016-09-07 21:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will meet a friend soon i am sure but do not look down on yourself so much. pick a group at school that you could get into then maybe you could find friends with the same interest as you it will happen
2007-01-19 09:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by mary m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I've had that same problem. Just hold on. It's better to be without good friends than to have a bunch of un-true people around you. You'll meet people.
2007-01-19 09:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋