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Question

ok.... so im a lesbian... im 13 yrs old... i like a girl in my class and i was wondering if any1 knows how to be able to tell if shes bi and if she likes me too

well i told one person in my class who i thought i could trust and she told one other person and the person she told is sum1 who tells everyone every secret she knows and she told everyone and there was a huge rumor just last year and still going on this year but the romor was that i was bi cuz i was bi when i told and everyone still thinks im bi but i havnt told ne1 in my school that im les now cuz its too much of a risk to take

Answer 1

my neice talked to me about it when she was 14. sometimes you can "just tell" if someone likes you... maybe just call her up and say you were headed to the mall or something and you can just talk. if she acts all weird about it or asks alot of stand offish questions, then maybe she's not the one for you...

it is tough being in school and knowing how you feel about the same sex. [i grew up in a very small, really churchy town where EVERYBODY knows everybody's business]

*do well in high school and go to a big university for college! i'm sure you won't have any problems meeting girls there!!!

Answer 2

Okay...(inhale, exhale) if you were an adult, i would say just ask her! But you are young & although you may be aware of who you are sexually, chances are that your classmate may not be. And if you were to just ask her, she would probably either look at you like you were crazy or she would start this big rumor about you being a lesbian, and i dont know if you're ready to deal with that. So, my BEST advice would be to just wait it out and be a friend only to her first. And then as you two grow closer & older, see if something happens.

Answer 3

and you are 13 years old? Hmmm.... that's weird

Answer 4

tell her you are gay and ask if shes is interested