Do you ever feel like you can't say what you want because people will try to get you back?

Question

Where I live, it seems like there is nothing but immature people who never have anything good to say. People are always saying smart comments and I never say anything back because they are the type of people who will get pissed off and key your car. I would love to put people in their place sometimes, but I don't because I fear what they might do. Does anybody else ever feel like that? what do you do? share your story....

Answer 1

yes i've felt like this before, but you just have to realize that these people thrive off of getting a reaction from somebody. You look like the much bigger man to just ignore these losers and carry on with your life. I used to live in this apartment building that unfortunately had mostly nothing but losers in it(i only lived there out of desperation for a few months until we bought our house) and these people hated my husband and i because we had 2 cars and jobs and lives, and they used to do stuff like rip off our wiper blades and once they put sugar in my husbands gas tank and cost us $1800, and i never said anything because i always thought "if they would do that what else would they do?" And i called the cops but they said i had to have proof it was them. So my biggest revenge is having a nice house and new vehicles while they are still holed up in their dumpy apartment having to walk everywhere.

Answer 2

Don't worry so much about what they will do if you stick up for yourself, if they pull stupid crap like keying your car then charge them and then sue them for damages (if your not old enough to do it, have your parents do it), one incident like that usually teaches people to pull their head outta their A** real quick! And if they don't learn, then sooner or later their stupidity will catch up with them and it'll bite them in the A** hard!

Bottom line though, people like that aren't worth your time. Ignore them completely, I mean that very literally, when they say something don't even acknowledge their existence just keep on walking past them. That way if they try to pull stupid stunts or petty acts of vandalism at your expense, and someone tries to turn it around and asks what did you do to provoke it, you can honestly say "absolutely nothing". Always remember that you are better then the people you're talking about, let them keep acting like losers, thats all they know how to be and all they ever will be, so don't lower yourself to their level, teach them a lesson they won't soon forget instead.

Answer 3

soreness is an unusual factor. Burning a finger or stubbing a toe can harm all night, yet as quickly as I shattered my wrist into 20 products (bones protruding), i did no longer sense something in any respect. i assume i replaced into in basic terms into "operation mode," and that i found out that soreness may be a disability in getting needed medical help. i do no longer think of the worst actual soreness can come on the factor of the psychological affliction many human beings have suffered. Merry Christmas, and all the wonderful to you and your loved ones. And be careful!

Answer 4

Oh yes. And I say what I believe anyway. I highly recommend that. If they're really your friend you owe it to them to say what you really think and to learn a way to do so so that they're less inclined to tune you out or key your car.

That said, the security gaurd at my condo complex keyed my car on October 1st. What the heck do I know?

Answer 5

Yes sometimes I'm afraid if I open my mouth with something I don't like agree with what my wife is doing she will get pissed off so I also know when to keep my mouth shut and I also know how she is when I disagree with her.

Answer 6

If I feel that way I won't do anything because I always feel that God does not like ugly. I'm a strong believer in karma.

Answer 7

wow,i thought i was the only one who thought like that.i come up against so many negative responces everyday-it really wears me out.i spend my days just humouring people,its the best i can do just to get me through the working day-just nod & smile,.....at least i can come home & read yr question & realise i aint the only one who's up against it-more power to ya my mate-dont let em get ya down

Answer 8

sometimes well at work this girl is crazy and we all like think she is a freak because she kicked this girls car because she was upset with her but keep to your morals.

Answer 9

i dont pay attention to tyhe stupid people i do what i know is right, and if they dont like it, then they dont have to be a part of it. its your own life, liv how u want to live it, not them.

Answer 10

You need to hang around different people.