I am now 12 3/4. When I was younger, I'd go on tons of porn sites just to look/get horny/satisfy my curiousity. I stopped because we kept on getting viruses. We got a BRAND NEW computer. My mom AND dad both knew I used to go to porn sites. I told them I won't again. And I told the truth. I never went on a porn site the day we got our new computer. Now, we keep on getting e-mails from SUPPOSEDLY recent sites that were visited and they were porno websites. I never went to a porn site with this new computer, and once my dad even hit me because I went on one when when I was little. So, who keeps on going to porn sites now? I live with my mom and dad. My mom doesn't even KNOW how to use the computer and my dad is a computer expert. After he got off the Internet one day, I checked the history out of curiousity only to find a bunch of 'xxx' sites. My dad keeps on telling my mom that I went to those sites and I keep getting punished for something I didn't do. My dad keeps doing this (CONT'D)
2007-01-19 08:54:40 · 12 answers · asked by FallOutGirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just to use me as a cushion. He even hits me 'when he knows I go on those sites'. He just wants to show my mom that he never did that, that I'm the bad one/the liar. I've attempted running away because my life's already screwed up, I was too pansy. Please help. My dad is an abusive liar.
2007-01-19 08:56:23 · update #1
just to use me as a cushion. He even hits me 'when he knows I go on those sites'. He just wants to show my mom that he never did that, that I'm the bad one/the liar. I've attempted running away because my life's already screwed up, I was too pansy. Please help. My dad is an abusive liar.
2007-01-19 08:56:24 · update #2
And hypocritical.
2007-01-19 08:57:17 · update #3
Don't use the computer at all for a few days. If you have to use it, only use it for non-internet purposes.
Also, in front of your mom, tell your dad that you would rather that he put an internet blocker on the computer, that way, you can only use it if supervised. If your father disagrees, then just don't use the computer for a few days.
Make sure that somehow, your mother KNOWS that you weren't on the computer. Go out and play with other kids, or use the computers at THEIR houses (no porn sites, for real) so that there's NO WAY that your father can blame you for him being unable to fess up to his OWN shortcomings.
2007-01-19 09:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 09:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby , you're in a bad spot. Your Mom is going to want to believe her husband and you already have given reason for her to believe it is you. Talk to your Mom, tell her you can prove that it is not you but your Father. Does she know he hits you? That is unacceptable! Let your Mom know that if she wants to know the truth, you will help her find it. Reassure her that you know that isn't what she wants to believe, her hubby on X rated sites, but finding out the truth will help her deal with the problem at hand. You don't deserve the punishments and I'd be sure Mom knows about Dad hitting me if I were you. You can call the authorities next time. Don't sit back and take it! You deserve more!
2007-01-19 09:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, bring your parents into the room with you and block any innappropriate sites. Make sure they SEE what you are doing! Second, use the computer in limited periods. Don't stay on too long or they might get suspicious. Lastly, keep them informed on what you're doing online. That's what my cousin did and she's only 11.
2007-01-19 11:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have proof work on it.It sounds like your dad is the one going to porn sites and using you as a scapegoat.Just stand up for yourself if you know that you are innocent.Since you did go on them they are naturally going to suspect you.You really are in a no win situation.
2007-01-19 09:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a normall thing why are they tripping buy a virus scan protection there only like 50 dollars anywhere they sell computer accesories
but u should wait till u get older ull have more fun without some lousy computer
2007-01-20 09:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's using you to cover up his activity. Tell your mom, or better yet show her what you found. Print a copy of the hustory
2007-01-19 21:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kido. Set up password accounts on the computer and when you log on to you account you see your desktop and files blah blah blah. and when your dad logs on he will see the same. but when he logs on and goes on the internet it will record HIS activity. and when you log into yours and use the internet it will record YOUR activity. and if he's abusive, call DHS(Department of Health Services).
2007-01-19 09:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn Thai chi and throw energy balls at your dad when he tries to hit u.
2016-04-03 13:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow......ummm talk to your dad and tell him that you know that he is blaming you. if you can show him his history and prove to him that you know
2007-01-19 09:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by gizmoisdaman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋