See, I have this ex that hates me, and I hate him too. I guess, but in a way I still have feelings for him, im not sure if love...it's just hard to explain. he doesn't turn me on anymore, but anyways, how do i cut off this feeling.
It almost seems like there is a special place in my heart labeled with his name, even as I'm writing, a section in my heart seems to warm. but i do hate him! WHAT TO DO?
but he does make me mad
but everytime i see him i almost want to be like "im still yours!"
its so hard to explain
HELP!
2007-01-19 08:52:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ITS BEEN 2 YEARS SINCE WE HAVE BROKEN UP!
2007-01-19 08:57:14 · update #1
2 years and it still hasnt healed...normal? i say not
2007-01-19 08:58:54 · update #2
i am a girl you sillies!
2007-01-19 09:04:20 · update #3
Find someone to replace him. That's the best cure for a broken heart.
2007-01-19 08:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh crud, you're me. There's really nothing you can do that helps that much. It took me a couple years to get over my exboyfriend mostly, but even though I'm dating somebody else, I still can't help but feel I loved him more...who knows, it might be a sign that it was a bad, co-dependent sort of relationship. It did get pretty nasty for awhile. My advice is to give it time and, no matter what, don't allow it to interfere with your other relationships with your parents, family, friends, etc. Work on finding yourself, as cheesy as that sounds; just don't let it mess up anything else you're doing or you'll regret it. Work hard in school, be good to those who love you, and know that plenty of people have gone through this before; you just want to be sure you're one of the ones who comes out a good person.
2007-01-19 09:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That happened to me too, when my boyfriend of a year and four months cruelly left me in the dust... it's the leftover feelings. Yes, you have broken up with him and you say you hate him and all - I believe you. Now you just need to move on completely, and these leftover feelings will fade away. For me, it helped when I found a new friend, a sweet guy that I ended up falling for. I don't know if finding a new guy would work for you, or if you're ready for that... it depends.
Good luck, though.
2007-01-19 08:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-07 10:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate and love are on opposite ends of the scales yet when only a fraction out of balance can seem huge
you will move on eventualy
and meet some one else even if not looking
those scales will tip again and you will forget this pain
it just takes time hon and you take as long as you need
:)
2007-01-19 09:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously are not over him. Keep in mind that there is a very thin line between love and hate. Either patch things up with your ex or move on, it is no good being stuck in neutral!
2007-01-19 08:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can help you, follow these directions:
1. open up a desk draw
2. Take your pants off
3. Place Pen*s in draw.
4. Close draw repeatedly until pen*s resembles a nail file or something similar.
5. You are cured! Hooray!
You're a girl? Whoa sorry. However,if you were a guy, please follow the above steps.
2007-01-19 08:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try not to think about your situation too often.
Eventually, it will just fade away.
You may go through life always remembering him fondly, and there's nothing wrong with that.
But trust me. The feelings of love for him will leave you one day.
2007-01-19 08:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't hate him that's for sure.....i doubt it that he hates you too. (hate is a strong word) just tough times dude- you'll get over it...just occupy your mind and do things that make you happy. if you know that you still have feelings for the boy there's nothing you can do to make them go away. TIME HEALS....
2007-01-19 08:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by mfn_rockstar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry there really is know why to control your feelings but you can try moving on or thinking of him as an acquaintance nothing more otherwise go on dates and have fun try to put the past in the past but if all else fails keep having feelings for him
2007-01-19 08:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by valley1800 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay. Your trying to get someones name out of you heart. out of mind? right? well he'll always be there, but theres ways to lessen the feeling. Find things you've never done with him, and enjoy it, fins somthign to occupy your mind, that you never done with him. and if needed find someone else, give someone else a chance to win your heart, it' always good for some competition, right?
2007-01-19 08:58:57 · answer #11 · answered by jtk19921224 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋