Im about to meet up with a couple of buddies for a farewell hang out. One of them is someone use to date before and are now friends because she said she was not ready for a relationship
The thing is recently she has been acting real weird, fake and doesn't talk as much as before and also caught her with some lies. (My guess is that she is going out with someone else and she is probably feeling guilty about it). I know its none of my concern and I am really ok with if she is really going out with someone since I am way over her. Everyone is free to date who ever
I know that she is very insecure and tends to approach things on the wrong way. I still want to be friends with her because i know she is a good person and although I dont know the real reason why she is acting this way, I just want to know whats wrong.
I plan to confront her and tell her how I'm feeling.I am not sure If i should do it today
Also, how you guys think I should approach this subject when I speak to her. Thanks
2007-01-19 08:38:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just walk up to her and talk to her. You don't need any special approach. Talk to her honestly and tell her you'd like to be friends and see what she says. Let her know that it's ok with you if she's dating someone. Tell her you think she's a nice person and you just want to be friends. If she says ok then ask her what's wrong because your concerned and you'd like to help.
2007-01-19 08:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bridget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her as you always have. Since you are friends you have had conversations in the past; just approach her as you always have making small talk at first and once things are comfortable in the conversation just say "hey is everything OK?" Let her know you value the friendship too.
2007-01-19 08:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by bravokardia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say mix it up a touch. Do issues that you'll not in many cases do. Like, attitude a guy and ask him out. purchase a guy a drink in case you want to get to charm to close him more effective perfect. start up a communique, tell a humorous shaggy dog tale, and so on... you're taking the lead. good success.
2016-10-15 11:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her what you've noticed and ask her what her perspective on things are and that she doesn't have to hide things from you just because you guys used to date, and if she won't talk then use emotional appeal to persuade her to talk
2007-01-19 08:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by blah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋