2007-01-19 08:35:45 · 17 answers · asked by nar 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
A lot of programs(international) are shifting away from allowing singles to adopt(most notably, China), but I'm pretty sure Guatamala is still open to singles adoptions.
If you're looking at adopting domestically, a single might be a hard sell to birth moms, but it's worth a try. I chose to pursue international adoption in part because I didn't think my husband and I would be attractive to birth moms(personal opinion) due to our financial situation(low middle) and jobs(law enforcement). I know if I was a birth mom, I'd be very choosy about who would be taking my baby!
Adopting through foster care might be the easiest situation. Talk to a social worker and find out what the proces is in your state/county. Wisconsin(where I live) has a program where you are eligible to receive an infant once you are certified as a foster parent. This is a "fost adopt" type of program.
Whatever programs you choose, you'll need to talk to a social worker, fill out an application(s) and have a home study done. Costs also vary widely as to your state and what program you choose to pursue. With all adoptions, be prepared to have an extended waiting period. I am going through a China adoption and have been waiting over a year, with a year to go!!! Good luck.
www.adoption.com is a great website for hopeful parents and adoptive parents. They have a nice forum where you can post about your adoption journey.
2007-01-19 08:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Angela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're totally prepared to take care of a child and you don't see an upcoming relationship that fits into your timeline then you may be perfect for a foster child. There are A LOT of children out there that need the love, support, guidance, and encouragement from the type of person you seem to be.......just make sure this is something you are realistically able to do or it can be bad for you as well as whatever beautiful little girl you are blessed with. Also do your research....there is a lot to learn....I guess in short so it doesn't sound like we're at a session if it feels right do it, just be prepared. She will need you more than you know and she may be just what you're missing. It could be a WONDERFUL relationship..... ;O) and look at the bright side this is the only 100% way to have a baby girl!
2007-01-19 08:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Red 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the agency and what your desires are for a child (race, sex, etc.), adoption goes from very expensive to insanely expensive. It isn't uncommon to see people paying $30K or more to adopt a child.
You aren't too old to have a child naturally, and you may still meet that perfect guy. The increase in birth defects doesn't really kick in until you deliver after the age of 35.
Besides, being a parent is a LOT of work. My wife and I have a wonderfully behaved little girl of 8 months. Even daycare calls her a little angel. And she wears us out all the time. Just catching a cold can make us run down taking care of her. And when my wife got sick last week, I was exhausted taking care of our baby by myself. I can't imagine doing that all the time, and don't know how single moms (and dads) do it. They amaze me.
My best advise is to hope to find the right guy and have someone that really wants to help you raise that child.
But, ultimately, the choice is yours. Do whatever feels right. Just know what you are getting into, and that you don't have anyone to help you.
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2016-10-31 13:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have time. Give your child a family whether you adopt or choose to give birth. But make sure you are ready for the responsibility. I think adoption is a beautiful thing.
2007-01-19 08:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush yet there is still time, especially if you want to have YOUR own child
I was by choice a player for many years and watched as my freinds all had kids in their 20's
I eventually felt that I was missing out and worried that I had missed my opportunity many times over
But at 38 I met a girl and landed up having a beautiful baby son - when I wasnt looking or thinking about (the way it works I guess)
Whatever you do, dont rush into anything or settle just to achieve your goal of getting pregant - it could backfire on you
2007-01-19 08:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are financially stable enough and will be able to handle all of the work, then I think you should definitely do it. Just know that it is sometimes hard for single women to adopt. But if you really want it, you should go for it.
2007-01-19 08:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by carin l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Artificial Insemination
2007-01-19 08:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by The Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend volunteering at a childrens' hospital, Big Brother's, or babysitting for free for people who can't afford the help. Taking on a child be yourself means that you will rely on daycare to raise the child while you pay for it by working full time - hardly a fair option for the child. I volunteer at a homeless shelter for families and the exhausted mothers are more than glad to let me bathe and pamper their infants for them while they rest. I don't have my own children either - we can't afford it at the moment. It is an extremely rewarding experience to help others who need it.
2007-01-19 08:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by Nature Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you're sure you can handle the costs and time requirements of being a single parent. I would sit down and talk to friends or relatives who have kids and ask them about this. It's one thing to love a child, but another to give them the time, attention, and material things they need.
If you know you can handle it, I think it's great!
2007-01-19 08:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by milomax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋