This guy I know had given me one tutoring session, and he's always asking me if I would like to sign up for more, but I told him I was going through financail difficualty and couldn't so he offered me a follow up free sessions, he said he has that diecreation who he wants to give one too, so he seen me, and told me to call hm for the free follow up session, but I never did so he txt messaged me at night at 12:00 midnight asking me if I wanted to come in too see in for the tutoring session on tueday at 9 and I told him i let him know. but then he called me a few days later, out of the clear blue, but didn't leave a message, And I'm thinking didn't he tell me to let him know when I was available so why is he calling me?Can Anyone tell me what the deal is?Am I not communicating myself clearly enough?
2007-01-19 08:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think he likes you. Its pretty obvious he just wants to spend time with you but is too shy to call you for a date!
2007-01-19 08:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now let me understand this. You signed up for tutoring lessons and the guy turned out to be a loser, so you told him to "talk to the hand." He counter-offered by saying he would take anything he was offered. You ignored his counter-offer and he then, in a most outrageous manner, called you out of the blue, but didn't leave a message. I say the guy is a heel. No phone etiquette whatsoever. I think you've made yourself perfectly clear to anyone who reads your question. Get a brain.
2007-01-19 16:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by husemanw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, he is making advances. If you don't, he's playing the creep. Be careful. Don't give him the wrong impression that you like him because that's only going to get his juices flowing. If I were you I would break off the whole deal unless you like him. Then stay with the tutoring. Remember it doesn't pay to be nice.
2007-01-19 16:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not trust any Instructor/tutor that is calling me like that. That is a form of harassment and you should deal with it before it gets out of hand. Tell him before you tell the any legal office.
2007-01-19 16:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you had better find yourself another tutor. He doesn't sound stable to me, especially if you have flat out told him you can't afford any more sessions.
He may just like you and wants to see you socially but you had better decide if that's what you want.
2007-01-19 16:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is pretty clear to me, yes you are communicating well enough, although and never the less!, he has offer you tutorials for free, just curious what about if you tell him that from now on, he will has to give you his tutorial for free, for the rest of your life, for ever??????, So, let see what he has to say!!! use the telephone!!!!!!!only.
2007-01-19 16:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by paradiseemperatorbluepinguin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he is looking for more than "tutoring" and hopes you will offer some other form of "payment"
2007-01-19 16:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently not. Apparently not clearly enough. How about, "Here's my final decision. I don't want any more tutoring. Please do not contact me about this again." You have to be very direct with some people.
2007-01-19 16:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question. You are definitely not communicating clearly with this guy, nor are you communicating very clearly in your question either.
2007-01-19 16:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar condition happening to me these days.I can only say that he fancies you.Just doen't answer his calls and messages again.He should be ashamed he is using lessons to fulfil his personal ambitions!
2007-01-19 16:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋