from you? i mean, earlier today i was at lunch with some of my friends (we're in the 7th grade) and my friend told me that this girl hated me for various reasons. I mean, i was sensing it, and my friend told me that she needed to tell me something related to that girl hating me, so i said she could tell me. Well the girl's name is rachel, like that changes anything. I know who she is, i'm familiar with her ways, i'm an aquattance with her. (sorry about the spelling, going fast!) But i don't know why she would hate me besides jealousy. I just don't know her to be the jealous type, so i was kind of confused. But i didn't end up mentioning it until we were all through eating. I was frustrated on why she would hate me, and i felt like i had to know, even though it was probably something that i couldn't change.
So she told me why she hated me, and i was in shock. "You're annoying, think you're all that, rude, selfish, and you just don't like me." i denied all of it. IT wasnt true. so, help
2007-01-19 08:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If someone is going to judge you and not like you because of something not true.... they are lying. 99% of people that "hate" someone is because they are jealous! Keep your head up and enjoy being young and having true friends... don't sweat people like her, they're a waste of energy and you will never get anywhere with her.
Besides, do you really want a person like that to be your friend... personally, that spells trouble!
When you see her, smile, say hi and go about your way!
2007-01-19 08:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by just curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her ' Give me some examples of what i do thats rude selfish and what do i do that makes me seem i think im all that?' see what she tells u... It seems like shes just making up reasons not to like u. Tell her that thats immature of her to automaticaly think that when she dont even know you all like that! Does she know anything about u? has she hung out with u before? been to your house? talked to u about serious things? Because if she hasnt, how can she make up ignorant assumptions about u. But if she wants to be like that, tell her just dont speak to u then and keep your name out her mouth. Tell her to GROW UP (even though your only in 7th grade)
2007-01-19 08:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her 2 go away! Tell her that just because she's jealous doesnt meen u can come up to me and insult me! Tell her all the things u hav done 4 ur friends and then turn away and talk 2 ur friends again.
2007-01-19 08:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by CurlsWithBrains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd just steer clear of her, sounds like she has "issues" i ran into the same thing back in grade 8....... ending in us duking it out after school one day under the bridge, wasn't pretty.
2007-01-19 08:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldve beat her (beep) right then and there
2007-01-19 08:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋