My friend is a really nice person. She started to like this boy that i told her was bad news. He gets into a lot of trouble and i told her it wasn't a good idea to date him. But she didn't listen. She went out with the guy and now shes pregnant. I feel really bad because she had so many goals in her life. She told me that im lucky because i get to go to school and live my life the way i planned. I don't know what to tell her when she is crying all the time about what happened. What should i tell her? help please.
2007-01-19 07:53:05 · 8 answers · asked by skatergirl42_108 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You shouldn't feel bad. You tried to help.
You should still stick by her and help with whatever you can. She may need someone to just do alot of listening. She may feel better if she can just vent about everything. Don't feel obligated to make it all better or fix anything, but do be there for her.
I believe if she can't attend school anymore (medically) that public schools have to offer a tutor for a student to finish. I'm not positive, but I think I have heard that is the law in my state. She can always get a GED. But I don't think she has to quit school.
2007-01-19 08:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by tcdrtw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can still do all the things that she has planned to do. If she wants to go to school, then she can. Having a baby changes everything, but that doesn't mean that she has to give up all her goals and dreams. The baby can come along for the ride as her mother makes it to the top. Life doesn't always goes as planned, and she can still achieve anything she wants. Let her know that you care about her and that there is still hope.
2007-01-19 08:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can still go to school and live her life , just stick by her and help her with the baby try to lead her in the right direction , there is no reason that cant go to school i did it , maybe her family can help her with the baby , see ur goals and stick to them . u sound like a real good friend for her so stick it out .
2007-01-19 07:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by ricksfancyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all she can still go to school am still in school and am preg with my second one and second am still living my life am starting college in september no matter what and when i finsh my hairdressing course am going to work on a cruise doing hair and take my childs with me so if she really whats to do some things in life tell her to get up and do it because she is probley just sceared i was when i first got preg when i was 14 but in the end i thought having a child ent that bad i can and could still live my life haw i want to.so what i think you need to tell you freind is get back to school i was stil in school when i was 8 months preg with my first one because i didnt what to miss school just over my child and naw am stil in school and am 16 weeks pregso your friend can still reach her goals in life
2007-01-19 08:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are options for your friend. SUch as, adoption & abortion. Maybe she can do some research on the different options avaliable. She can always have the baby & continue on with her life & goals. It may be harder , but is possible.
2007-01-19 08:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by leashell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life doesn't always (and usually doesn't) go as we plan it. just be supportive of her and help her out with the pregnancy and being a mother. remind her that she can still reach her goals, it just may take going a different route to reach them. good luck to you both!
2007-01-19 07:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by kiki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE THE GOOD FRIEND U ARE AND STAY BY HER SIDE 24/7, UR THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN HELP HER RIGHT NOW!MAKE SURE SHE KEEPS HER HEAD UP N FINISHED SCHOOL N DOES WHAT SHE WANTS TO DO!BE A TRU FRIEND
2007-01-19 09:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by don't question me..lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u tryed to tell her not to go out with the guy and she didnt listen...
2007-01-19 07:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋