what could i say to my wife that would just make her melt in my arms tonight she had an affair about 2 months ago and things are getting great again i just want to floor her with something
2007-01-19 07:50:37 · 18 answers · asked by demorider2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I ADMIRE YOU FOR GIVING HER ANOTHER CHANCE. AFTER WHAT SHE DID TO YOU I THINK SHE SHOULD BE THE ONE THINKING OF WAYS TO FLOOR YOU.
2007-01-19 07:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by AV8R 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Any chance that you could take her back to the place that you first met? Do something that will take her back to a time before you to had problems, buy her a rose and a nice bottle of wine (if she drinks) and maybe a nice candle lit dinner. Walmart has some really nice cards now a days that help you get the meaning across when you can't find all the right words. This is just a suggestion, and even if you can't do any of these things maybe the thoughts will help spark another idea.
2007-01-19 16:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something 2 months ago is not a long time. I know your still feeling the hurt. In your now trying to put it behind you. Sometimes when your the one who trying to get the love back and trying to make sure it don't happen again. Your trying very hard to achieve that.But I tell you, you can't be a puppet on a string for long. There's nothing wrong with you trying to do something nice for her tonight and things are getting great again. Just don't fool yourself. I know after a spouse has affair. Things HAVE to change. The hard part is can it stay change. Floor her with some flowers and a gift card to a expensive store. And you go by ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger in a few weeks by her the proper care and feeding of husbands you need to feed your mind with positive things to read after affair. If you two want it to work. It will. But if she got's one foot in, in foot out, look out she will do it again. If she not there with you to make it work a 100% and you see the same pattens that lead up to the affair. Look out. It's hard to put the prices together. And it take the will of God to come into your life. I hope it works out for you.
2007-01-19 16:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her why you are so much in love with her ... point out the little things she does for you ... say something like :
I know we've been through some rough times in the past but tonight baby ... I want everything to be about me & you ... I want to show you how much I love you ... cherish you ... and want to be with you forever ... through thick & thin ... hand her some flowers - give her a huge kiss & pull her to the bedroom ... once your there ... tell her how beautiful she is to you .. and no other woman compares ... play with her hair while you gaze into her eyes ... act like a cheesy 16 year old boy trying to get some again ... lol ... anyway ... be happy, be silly, be macho ... whatever it takes to make her smile ... that's all your looking for ... the smiles are what counts ... you know she's happy ... !
2007-01-19 16:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell her that your heart is filled with love for her. Or just look into her eyes, touch her face and tell her she is so beautiful. Who knows why she had the affair, but hearing from you that she is desirable and beautiful, and smart and cute and funny may help keep her from looking for that sort of affirmation from someone else. And if you sit in front of the TV with the remote most evenings, put it down once in awhile and help her out. Don't let her feel like the maid around the house. Let her know you treasure her for more than her culinary or homemaking skills. And if there are kids involved, helping get them ready for bed will be foreplay. ;)
Pay attention to her, LISTEN to her (and I mean really listen as in respond and remember what she's said), let her know she's valuable and cherished. Let her know she has all she needs in you.
2007-01-19 16:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to be the guy she cheated on with you....just kidding. You have a big heart, that should be reason enough for her to melt in your arms, and if she does not then she is not worth it.
You must really love her or your a loser. Either way good luck
2007-01-19 16:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing something to make her melt in your arms? She is the one who cheated- she should be doing stuff for you and making it up to you.
2007-01-19 17:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by NLH823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hands down to you hon. She should be flooring you!! We all make mistakes, we are human. But you have a huge heart that doesn't fit in your chest. Just tell her what you think is good for both of you!!
2007-01-19 16:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by sol_luna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And she came back? Wow, yea hats off to you...when I'm done, I'm done...I would leave first but for me there's no going back. She must really love you even tho she screwed up. Tell her you won't hate her forever...deep down I'm sure thats what she's thinking
2007-01-19 16:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Floor her with cooking dinner, then cleaning up after yourself. Words are cheap.
2007-01-19 16:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
*She* should be thinking of nice things to say to *you*!
She is probably still taking advantage of your devotion and kindness.
Tell her, "Even though you deserve yet another in our on-going series of lecture/screamfests about what a filthy shameless wh*re you are, I'll instead let you drink yourself silly before spending the next 7 hours blowing me senseless and riding me like a rented mule. And if you're lucky, I might let you pop off an orgasm or two along the way. Start drinking, sweet cheeks."
That should floor her.
And if you casual readers give me "thumbs down" - if you can't recognize SARCASM, please go f*ck yourself you uptight sanctimonious assh*les. You know you'd thumbs up if it was about a man cheating. Hypocrites!
2007-01-19 16:02:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋