I met him on the internet, and we have been friends for 1 year plus already. He's a really nice person, 19 years old (I'm 17), doesn't uses vulgar, treats me kind, always chatting. That's the reason why I fell for him. During the time when I was getting over my ex, he mentioned to me that he would like as a gf 'someone can talk a lot to him like me'... but then due to the fact he knew I was still getting over my ex, he felt it was awkward. I knew he meant it, but that was a more than 8 months ago.
Now, we talking less. One reason is because he sometimes takes a long time to answer. I know that his connection lags a lot (Especially in the rain. And it's monsoon season now). But I wonder if I'm bothering him. I asked him, but he said nope. Also, he was reading comics while he was MSNing me. So that might be the reason for the slow replies. I feel a bit like I'm holding a one-man conversation. I'm afraid if this goes on any longer, I might lose him. But I might be bothering him. -.-""
2007-01-19 07:43:36 · 8 answers · asked by Ayako 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Seriously, u dont know this guy at all. You may like him but u know how easy it is to act like someone your not over the internet? Ive been watchin the news lately, and there was a story about a girl who met this guy her age and she really liked him so she decided to go meet him, her friend was the only one who knew but she didnt tell anyone. Well the girl ended up getting killed. And the friend felt horrible. Older men pray on young girls like yourself because they know what u want to hear. A guy who is 19 is NOT that mature. I can almost guarantee, thats one in a million.. Be safe. Dont worry about him, find someone out in the world such as school or somewhere else. Dont worry about losing him, people come and go in everyones life. You cant hold on to everyone. People change. Its life.... just get over him like u did your ex... youll make it.... and trust me, you have a LONG life ahead of u to meet guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 07:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17 and he is 19. Why are you meeting people online???? Have you ever met this guy? How do you know that he isn't a creepy 40 year old looking for a 'youngin'?
Hang out with people that you meet at school or at your part-time job.
2007-01-19 15:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever met this guy? He might not even be who he says he is. As to bugging him, yea it sounds like you are. Harsh I know but guys are stupid. Find a guy you can actually touch and doesn't mind talking to you.
2007-01-19 15:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Charly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your talking to someone you know nothing about really...move on, chat with someone else!
2007-01-19 15:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just dont talk to him for a while if you think youre bothering him
2007-01-19 15:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you like him to and he is still liking you then you find out
2007-01-19 15:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Chesney A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOO LONG FOR ME TO READ BUT THANKS FOR THE TWO POINTS
2007-01-19 15:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dunno
2007-01-19 15:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by Dirtbikechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋