Me and my husband want to have a child, but I am unable to carry. How or where would you post to let people know that if they are looking to give up their child there is a loving home waiting for them? I have looked at adopting and I would rather spend money on the child rather than paying all the ridiculous fees. Thank you!
2007-01-19 07:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by luvsreward 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I am a surrogate and I work for and agency that does all the work for you in finding you a surrogate. An agency takes care of the paper work and all the legalitys! they also do all the screaning and all the finacial part for you and the y offer a great suppot system! the agency I work with is owned by women who are just like you. they both have kids from surrogates. So they understand YOU! If you have any questions email me by clicling on my Avatar! I would be glad to help you in anyway that I can!
2007-01-19 08:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Megz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my oppinion, I think that the best place to look for a surrogate would be in the family. If your family understands what you are going through and are very supportive and are okay with it, see if one of them could do it. I got the Mirena IUD put in 3 yrs ago in Nov. and my doc said that if it turned out that I couln't carry to surrogate. My older sister has 3 of her own and told me that when we try again and it doesn't work out... That she would do it for me and my husband. With it being someone in the family carring for you... You also have a higher chance that the surrogate wouldn't change their mind at the last minute and decide to keep the baby. If you would like to know some info on a good doc that could do a good job and not charge an arm and a leg...feel free to ask. I could e-mail you his info.
2007-01-25 02:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by ♥~Momma In Love~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this what you are really looking for? Do you want them to carry a child born from your egg and husbands sperms? Or her egg and your husbands sperm? I guess if you figure those out you can search on google.
Here is one place to start. Good luck!
http://www.surromomsonline.com/
Surrogacy is a third party reproduction arrangement whereby a woman agrees to become pregnant for the purpose of gestating and giving birth to a child for others to raise. She may be the child's genetic mother or not, depending on the type of arrangement agreed to.
The word surrogate, from Latin surrogatus (substituted), means appointed to act in the place of.
A surrogate mother is a woman who carries a child for a couple or single person with the intention of giving that child to that person/people once the child is born (also called surrogate pregnancy). The surrogate mother may be the baby's biological mother (traditional surrogacy) or she may be implanted with someone else's fertilized egg (gestational surrogacy).
2007-01-19 08:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a difficult situation. It may seem "easier" to do the surrogate thing but you still need lawyers incase they (surrogate mom) changes her mind. Also if you plan to have them carry your baby, you may have to pay for the prenatal care and delivery. My parents delt with two years of papers, letters, adoption agencies etc...and they said that was all worth it to get me...and my mom says it was like labor for her. Nothing is easy in life.
Good luck!
2007-01-19 08:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by ArtBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no point you looking for some stranger really truely ask a good friend or close family member... there are so many legal communications in even looking for a surrogate... let alone allowing them to carry your baby.. ask someone you trust and draw up a contract anyways
good luck
2007-01-19 08:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Minx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a very good idea but then you never know either way which is the most best way because neither of these ways are always guaranteed to work a lot of people dont want to particpate because there is a lot involved in being a surrogate mother
2007-01-27 06:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by harold g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can recommend SurrogatesNow and independent matching site. Great site & free sign up. Matches surrogates, egg donors & intended parents!
www.searchingforasurrogate.com
2014-01-20 20:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a Reproductive Lawyer number If he can't help maybe he can tell you someone in your area that can help you. Here is the number 888-363-9457
2007-01-26 00:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by carrottop904 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you should get some one you know to do it for you and best of luck . my sister did it for my cousin .
2007-01-26 11:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by gg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.surrogacy.com
2007-01-19 08:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋