2007-01-19 07:16:13 · 16 answers · asked by torn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, and it was the biggest mistake ever. He used me to have some fun and then started acting all wierd like he didn't even have any interest in me at all. But what can you expect from a man who is cheating on his wife, right. Anyway I was dumb enough to actually let myself have feelings for him and now that I know I will never see or hear from him again, I am taking pretty hard. I havent seen him in over a month and still can't get him off my mind, even though he totally treated me like a piece of meat. Where is my self-respect you might ask. I am wondering the same thing myself right now. If you are considering messing around with a married man, don't do it because you (and possibly other innocent people) will only be hurt by it.
2007-01-19 07:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and you think at time it was so great , until one day you ask where were you at such and such time and they tell you its over instead of telling you where they were! I loved this man and still am in so much pain, I wish I have never made this terrible dicision, now Iam living with the awful destruction and painful memories. I just try and try and try to get him to forgive me for being the other women , I just wanted to talk to him one last time and he wouldn't. There is so much to risk in a relationship like this, and I felt so bad for the other women til this day it puts me in a sad state daily for my dicisions.
My advice would be don't do it, to many single men to mess with a married man. To much lying has to take place to be in this type of relationship, and before long it will make you very LOW and shameful ,, I hope his helps you ! I just hope I can forgive myself one day.
2007-01-19 15:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Brokenheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not fair. I want a mistress.
2007-01-19 15:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of times.
2014-09-07 02:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by accident. didn't do anything, though. a guy i used to go out with in high school contacted me after i left my husband. he and i met for lunch a couple times and i think we kissed once. he told me he was separated. his pregnant wife called me screaming and name calling. i told her that nothing happened and that she could holler at me to feel better, but she needs to talk to her husband after. i figured that it didnt matter what she said to me if it helped her marriage. i felt SO bad. i didnt even know - or i never would have done that!
2007-01-19 15:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by wendyhannan0130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. Trust me if they say they are going to leave their wife or girlfriend but keep making excuses, then it will never happen. They are just using you. Besides you know he is cheating on her with you. Who is to say he won't do the same once you are the main girl in his life? DUMP HIM!! You deserve better than that.
2007-01-19 15:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never. I have way too much self respect for that. Besides, I'm do not share my men. Thank you.
2007-01-19 15:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i was and i regret it now and am sorry for it so i dumped him and he did not like it but oh well too bad... I would never do it again either as it is wrong.
2007-01-19 15:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea I have, it was great when I was younger and I wasn't really looking for anything serious, but I wouldn't do it again. Sex was the best though!
2007-01-19 15:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOT ME, I HAVE A LOT OF RESPECT FOR MYSELF, AND I DON'T LIKE IT WHEN THINGS COME BACK TO BITE ME IN THE ***, IT'S A LOT MORE PAINFUL THAN WHAT I WOULD HAVE DONE TO THE OTHER WOMAN. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
2007-01-19 15:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by AV8R 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋