Im 34 male been wearing diapers since i was 8 yrs old mostly at night and some during the day.. my wife has known that i wear diapers from the first day we met in 1993 we got married in 1999. three yrs later she oposes the idea that i wear diapers. so now i wear when she isnt around like when she at work.
2007-01-19 07:12:16 · 40 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, if she married you then she should have already made the decision to accept it. Still, there is no reason that she can not dislike it and talk to you about changing the behavior.
2007-01-19 07:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some would not expect a letter / comment such as this ... but there are times when in other peoples lives that incidents happen that lead to different behavior traits. I suggest this person and his wife seek some type of professional counseling. Yes there are a wide variety of diapers made to fit an adult. Acceptance is a gift. Don't lambast someone until you know the issue. After all someday a situation may arise concerning ourselves.
2015-03-08 04:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are wearing diapers because of a bladder control issue, this is totally acceptable and fine. (You wouldn't want to go all over the place!) If however, you wear diapers because of deep-set emotional reasons (such as not wanting to leave the "safe" place of your childhood memories to grow as an adult, or because you feel a sense of emotional comfort in wearing them), then I would suggest that you get some professional counseling support.
Because wearing diapers at 34, unless for a health condition, is wrong and it indicates a deep emotional problem that needs to be treated and helped. You can contact a free counseling line at:
1 (800) A-FAMILY
I hope that this helps--it may be scary to reach out for help (if it is an emotional issue), but you will feel so much better when you do.
Blessings on you.
Oh, before I forget...here is a quote from the movie, "The Princess Diaries" that you may find beneficial:
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that there is something more important than fear."
2007-01-19 07:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by LaPrincesse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i for my section quite have had tremendous fulfillment with objective type diapers! i purchase the mega %. that has about ninety diapers in it and the cost is $thirteen.89!!! I actually have lengthy gone by each type on the face of the Earth at one aspect or yet another. each infant's structure is distinct and some diapers leak for one, and in no way yet another. we've 3 babies and performance used distinct diapers on each and each. yet like I stated, the perfect ones I actually have found are objective type. i'd only get some programs for no longer because you'll opt for to confirm what works perfect on your infant! also, they advance out of the toddler and length a million diapers really quickly!
2016-11-25 20:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by vannostrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you wear diapers...interesting. Do you number 1 and number 2 in them as well? How had your sex life changed prior to your wife being unhappy with your fetish? More than likely this is not about something that has changed as immediately as yesterday, it has been coming for a long time. If my math is correct her objection began in 2002 and you are just now asking a question and showing some concern for your wife's feelings.
Does it have anything to do with "If you have a baby you won't be the baby?" (Kathrine Helmond to Goldie Hawn "Overboard" 1987)
Make an appoint for you and your wife with a marriage counselor...it can't hurt.
2007-01-19 08:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell your wife that she needs to get over if before you start looking for someone else who's into diapers. Just hint around at how it can work that way, when someone places limits on the relationship. Remind her that this isn't just a passing fancy, this is you, the you that she loves and married.
Best of luck
2007-01-19 07:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have stopped wearing diapers when you became potty trained because you know it's not normal to wear diapers at your age. This should have been stopped many years ago, I think you need to ask yourself why it is that you feel the need to wear diapers. Only you can answer that question. If you can't, then seel therapy & maybe in time, you will no longer feel the need to wear them. Good luck!
2007-01-19 07:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK im confused! But anyway, if you have accidents just tell her that it isnt your fault and you cant help it butif its because you are lazy then I understand why she is mad! Maybe you need to go to the doctor and have something checked! That is a serious situation and the doctors can give you a type of medicine where you would never do it again! If you really dont have a problem and you are making fun of people that is not nice at all!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 07:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by dark angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you wear them because of incontinence or do you just like to wear diapers? I can't imagine your wife being turned on by the fact that her "man" is in diapers. I'm trying to picture it -- nope, not sexy. If it is an incontinence problem. see a Dr. There are remedies for that.
2007-01-19 07:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your wife. If you are not wearing them for medical reasons then I say you need to potty train yourself and take the things off. At least it would give the Dr's and nurses a good laugh if you were in an accident.
2007-01-19 07:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋