im so dumb i cant even do simple maths?

Question

im 18 and im so dumb cause i find doing simple maths like timesing and dividing hard.my bf i was on the phone to him set me a simple maths question and i couldnt even work out how to do it.my bf so smart i cant see why hes dating a dumbo like me.i have always struggled at maths realy badly.in maths class cause im re taking my gcse maths and english cause i got E in maths and a D and a E in english and i need a c grade,but in class i couldnt do mental maths and i so upset that i couldnt do it,im dyslexic.i feel like giving up on maths,what else could i do to try inprove.

Answer 1

maybe you really are dyslexic. there's nothing wrong with that AT ALL sweetie. just get tested for it. p.s. patrick dempsey is dyslexic and hes hot, talented, and smart so DONT WORRY!

Answer 2

You need a textbook, some time and a plan. Go to the library and ask where the math section is (offhand, I don't remember the numbers range that is assigned to math books but it is the same in almost every library - that's the way they organize the books). Look at at least 5 basic math books (a textbook about arithmetic for a lower grade might be the place to start); check out 2 or 3 that you like because of their style and layouts.
Then set aside an hour of undisturbed time (no phone calls, no interruptions, no boyfriend around) every single day including weekends. Make a plan and work your way through the topics. Set your own goals using the table of contents subjects as a guide. Spend the daily hour first reading but then just work on problems. Do a lot of problems.
I guarantee you will make progress.
You will be surprised how smart you really can be. My math instructor told the class recently that math skills are like building blocks. You build on them. If you are shaky to begin with because you didn't get the basics learned, then it's hard to learn what comes after. But you can do it. You are not stupid - and dyslexia does not make someone stupid. However, anyone who helps you should know that you have diagnosed dsylexia. I hope you are talking about a diagnosed condition of dyslexia and not just calling yourself 'dyslexic' because of reading difficulties. You can definitely get help if you are a diagnosed dyslexic. Do all of this now while you are younger and relatively free of a lot of responsibility. Good luck and God bless!
(P.S. Keeping to a diet is much harder than learning math; that's something to think about....)

Answer 3

When I was in school I couldn't comprend math, my little brothers friend would help me. I have gotten a lot better, but I notice if someone is watching me or if I am on the spot, I get stressed & I don't do as well. Maybe part of your problem is a lack of confidence. Maybe your bf see how incredibly smart you are in other area. Being book smart isn't everything. Don't get down on yourself & if your struggling sometimes it helps to do something else, then come back to it. The most important thing is to realize how incredibly smart you are. Remind yourself about all the things your good at. Good Luck.

Answer 4

INTELLIGENCE IS NOT THE SAME AS EDUCATION!

You are not stupid and your bf is a jerk! If he knows you are not good at maths then why ask you to do a sum? Obviously to make you feel small and himself feel superior.
Dyslexia is a condition. It means you have difficulty in subjects.


You scored low BECAUSE of the DYSLEXIA NOT BECAUSE OF YOUR 'LACK' OF INTELLIGENCE.


There is an author who failed every one of his exams because he is dyslexic. The schools he attended branded him a trouble maker and just short of a drooling idiot.

As far as I am aware he is now THE most published writer in USA. His name is Piers Anthony.

Take a look at the question you wrote - many mistakes?
No? If your thick there would be a lot!

To improve, try the local library.
Get school books and work yourself through them.
Prove to yourself that you CAN!



And flick your unfeeling bf around the ear -- twice!



:~}

Answer 5

I'm sorry you feel so bad about yourself that you run yourself down in this way in public. You are a priceless individual with as much right to a place on this earth and to be loved as anyone else. You are not alone in lacking numeracy at your age. Your local authority should be able to tell you where you can get help as there are bound to be adult education classes somehwere in your area for people like you. Either that or turn to a trusted friend, I would say preferably not your bf as you are too close to him and would feel awkward.
A person's real worth is shown not in what they have or how brainy they are, but in how they treat others. Show kindness, love and respect for others and you will recieve the same in return. One of the most humble, simple men I knew was always running himself down as having nothing to offer and being stupid, yet when he died I heard that whenever he went to the lunches at our church, his was the table that everyone wanted to share. They felt comfortable and at ease in his company and knew that he would never have a laugh at their expense or try to put them down. I envy that man. He truly had a heart of gold.
Good luck with your problem and never abandon hope.

Answer 6

First of all, I doubt if you're dumb. You mightn't be good at maths but i'm sure there is lots of other things you're good at.
I got an E in maths too and it doesn't worry me.
Do you really need maths for your future career.
I'm studying Web Design and as I said before, I got an E in maths.
Don't worry about it, something will work out for you.

Answer 7

sounds like you need a tutor to give you the time to understand the maths.some people just need it explained.no- ones perfect , we all have things we struggle with. at least you're taking maths and english again now so you increase your chance of getting a good job. dont put yourself down just because you dont find mental maths easy. i doubt if your boyfriend is with you for your ability to add or subtract! maybe ask at school or college to see what help they can give you. dont give up.

Answer 8

You cant be good at everything,i myself dread the kids bringing home maths homework ,i am rubbish at maths myselfand i am not even dyslexic like you ,just cause you are not good at maths doesnt mean you are a dumbo ,i bet you are better at another subject than your boyfriend ,could you get any extra help with your maths? ask the teachers,dont be so hard on yourself, best wishesx

Answer 9

do not worry, some very clever and famous people could not do maths and some of the greatest mathematicians were very poor in arithmetic.

It could be that you need special coaching or a special school. Do not carry on struggling, speak to your head master and ask him what can be done for cases like yours. Best luck.

Answer 10

Your school has programs for Learning Disabilities. There are laws concerning this - there are programs in place called IEPs and 504s that protect you because of this disability.

If you have not had testing for Learning Disabilities - you need to be tested! Once tested and the results show specific learning disabilities you can have one of the programs implemented (IEP or 504 - it just depends on which one you are eligiable for). Once these are implemented your school has to provide you with the tools necessary for you to perform to you true intellectual ability. You really need to address this NOW - before you get any older - so you can learn the tools to deal with this Learning Disability for the rest of your life. Good luck - your parents really need to get involved in this process!:)

Answer 11

Get some professional help. Don't worry there are plenty things you can do in life that are not math related. However you do need to learn as much as you can. Balancing your money is really important in life. Even great mathematicians fail at it sometimes. Find things you are good at and use them to get ahead. Good LUCK!