I lived all my life dialectic and honourable like that I always got happy with people's happiness and upset with people's sadness but now I see there is no result believe me nothing . anyway , i can not change myself to be a carl,charlatan or stinker. I do not really know why i'm so bad luck(if believe chance) that although have being nice with the world and all creatures they are not good with me and the worst thing haapend for me ? The other hand I also understand as well as joy, life has got lots of problem to solve.
what is wrong with me ? get me an idea
2007-01-19 06:52:59 · 4 answers · asked by peh 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Fools Gold . What are your motives . What do you want . dont be nice because you feel you should , do it because you want to .
2007-01-19 07:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
John 3:16
2007-01-23 05:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do not see you as a friend but rather a target, not all people but enough. They feel they can run over you and you will not resist that means they can steal from you. People are not afraid to steal from people they see as weak even thou you are exercising great respect.
You are throwing pearls at swine. I hate to say this but look for people more like you and exclude the haters and greedy or you will have to change or lose your mind.
Life is a battle and people will screw you over for 5%.
2007-01-19 07:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might benefit from reading the book of Ecclesiastes in the Old Testament.
What is the value of "being a good guy"? Or as the poet put it, "Virtue is its own reward/Maybe that is why I am so bored."
The value is in pleasing God who expects that of you and of all of us. With what God did for me, I want to please Him.
Secondary value comes from the respect we garner from others who see that we are living this kind of life.
2007-01-19 07:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bob T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋