2007-01-19 06:51:23 · 21 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My ex and I had an agreement that if I ever found him cheating that would be the end. About 3 yrs ago I found him and a so called friend having at it so I left and filed for divorce. He had to take care of all the mess that he caused and I got to start over. Best thing that ever happened to me. I kept my self respect in tact and today we are friends. We have a child with children of his own. We were together 28 years and I have no intentions of rekindling the relationship. I can say that I will always love him but not like I did before he decided to play around. I DON'T want a std. and I am not willing to take a chance like that.
Good Luck
2007-01-19 08:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make him move out, divorce him, sell the house and then get on with my life. I would still have 2 boys to raise, and there for he would always be in my life (he's responsible like that) but I don't think I would dwell on it, I wouldn't forget about it ether though.
But luckily for me my husband has never cheated on me and I really don't think he would.
2007-01-19 14:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would throw all his stuff out, change the locks, and take him and his mistress to court. I heard about this woman who sued (and won) her hubby's mistress and is getting support from both the Mistress and the ex. She found some really old law that was still in effect but not being enforced. I would cut his *** outta everything I have.
2007-01-19 15:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have proof he cheating confront him then you can make up your mine what to do. I all way, heard a man who cheat has done so before and will do so again. Good Luck
2007-01-19 14:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reverse Karma is a B****! Most likely comfront him. I know before confronting him, I would have proof that he is infact being unfaithful. If he denies cheating...I would definitely leave him. I cant trust a liar..especially one that has been caught and still wont admit he is wrong..
2007-01-19 14:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by shonnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the Carrie Underwood song "Before he Cheats"?
2007-01-19 14:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jennie Fabulous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him own up to everything.
Have him confess to family members.
Call the mistress and tell her on speakerphone, with him there saying he is there, that she can have him full time - he is all hers.
Then leave.
Why would you want to spend your life torturing someone? That makes you as low and creepy as he is. Revenge might be your intial reaction, but it's beneath you.
Move on - he isn't worth it.
2007-01-19 15:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband cheat on me the first thing i'll ask is it worth it, then i'll give him 1day to pack his stuff
2007-01-19 14:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i would ask him why???? If he was sorry and wanted to work on the marriage i would give him another chance but if he did not want to work on the marriage and not change his adulterous ways then i would let him go and divorce him.
2007-01-19 15:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my first response would be to cut off his one-eyed monster. But when you wake up out of that dream, just confront him with what you actually know and take it from there.
2007-01-19 14:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋