I moved back because I miss my kids. I first left Wisconsin because I made some bad choices. I lost my job, and eventually moved because of lack of work. At the time I moved I was single yet dating a women in Florida. When we did decide to marry, it was great. As time went on, it was difficult because I missed my kids, and I feel what I was going through because of bad decisions I made in Wisconsin, it really tolled on me. My wife would always tell me to go home because she didn't think I wanted to be there. She would tell me I don't contribute enough to the household expense, and pretty much made it miserable. I started my own business and committed alot of money and effort. But after months of telling me to get out, I finally did. I moved back to Wisconsin, and I'm now trying to make a life for myself. I'm still married, yet I'm not sure where that is going. She did however file for divorce, but nothing else. I do miss her, but there was so much wrong, and so much left unsaid. Help !
2007-01-19 06:50:41 · 6 answers · asked by DASHLEY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Brooklyn said something about go there for a wekend. I did for 8 days two weeks ago. It was great. We were having such a great time. We made love everyday, held hands, and basically acted like we really cared. On Monday the day I left, she told me on the way to the airport that she still wanted the divorce. I felt really used and broken. 3 days later I went down there and got the rest of my things out. I didn't even tell her I was coming. When I did call, she wanted to see me, but I was just broken and hurt. She even had the nerve to tell me she still wanted to wrk it out and still loved me. I really hate this feeling. Help !!
2007-01-19 07:06:16 · update #1
Your story reminds me of something I once heard, " A man who can never make up his mind and stick to it , is a man with a big CAUTION sign on his forehead". Forget about everything in your past. Think about what you want from the future, then stick with it and don't give up on things so easily. You will soon find out you have went a long way toward your goals without even noticing. Know that you have to take one day at a time and NEVER give up.
2007-01-19 06:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has file for divorce then you have your answer. Look, you can't have it all your way. You left because your missed your children, now you are back with the children now you miss her. She asked you to leave because you were not contributed anything anyway and you were miserable and probably making her miserable. So she has file, sign it and move on with your life. And those things left unsaid are probably best unsaid.
2007-01-19 06:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign the divorce papers and move on with life. There are more women out there.
2007-01-19 06:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you have made decisions...bad ones! You need to focus on what you really want and start acting responsibly. Good luck!
2007-01-19 06:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by demilspencer@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to call her tell her you are coming for a weekend and you need to see her to get some thing straigh...you need to talk to her face to face and find out what happen and see if it can be worked out if no move on
2007-01-19 07:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know your feelings...But you cant make her love you...but maybe talking it out would help. Possible she would move back to be with you...
2007-01-19 06:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋