2007-01-19 06:49:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Being only 13 your mom is probably a big part of your life, she tells you about coming into teenage years and becoming a young adult TELL HER THAT YOU ARE PREGNANT!!!!!
First thing you should do is really think about if you are ready to have the baby. If your answer is yes, make sure you get the father involved. Make SURE you get prenatal care(ultrasounds, checkups,etc) make sure you and your baby is healthy throughout the pregnancy. Along with this is going to be judgments, that is going to happen regardless don't let it get to you, there is other priorities that you HAVE to take care of. Make sure the money is right, babies are expensive. Enjoy your bundle of JOY. God Bless
2007-01-19 09:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by *bubbalishis* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, you're 13 and having a baby??? You can't even spell pregnant. You sure shouldn't be pregnant. I'm so sorry for you because you are in for some hard times. You have to tell your mom. It's not going to go away, pretty soon your belly will be so big she'll know anyhow. Plus at such a young age you need to be seen by a doctor! This is a very dangerous situtation. Bite the bullet and tell your mom. You have to because trust me she's going to know anyway. Best of luck to you, you are in for some serious issues.
2007-01-19 08:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa 13 is young VERY young but hey i cant judge anybody i have my baby next month and I'm only about to be 17. But a little advise sweetie so that people wont think you don't have the knowledge to raise a child "pregnant" does not have an e in it.
2007-01-19 07:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jus_curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell your mother, is there anyone else in your family that you are close to who will understand? Even a friend's mother or a school counselor? No matter what you have to tell somebody. You need to get to a doctor as soon as possible. This is not going to go away no matter how much you ignore it. If you thought you were mature enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to take responsibility for your actions.
2007-01-19 08:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by New*Mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW MY CHILD YOU HAVE A PROBLEM HERE. THERE IS REALLY NO WAY AROUND THIS THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS THAT HAVE CHANGED IN THE LAWS SCHOOLS HAVE DIFFERENT POLICIES ABOUT CONFIDENTIALITY NOW. THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU IS TO TALK TO A SCHOOL COUNSELOR.THEY CAN LEAD YOU IN TO THE RIGHT HELP. IF YOUR PARENTS ARE THEY TYPE YOU CANT TALK TO THE SCHOOL COUNSELOR MAY BE THE BEST WAY TO GET HELP. REMEMBER THEY ARE IN THE SCHOOLS TO HELP YOU. DONT BE AFRAID. YES YOU ARE VERY YOUNG BUT WAITING LONGER MAY ONLY MAKE YOU MORE WORRIED. PLEASE TALK TO AN ADULT OF YOUR MOST TRUST EVEN A NEIGHBOR OR FAMILY MEMEBER.
2007-01-22 06:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by HORMIGA99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the parent of a 13 year old girl and if she got pregnant, I would want her to tell me, so that we could figure it out. I have always told my daughters that there is nothing they can't tell me, good or bad. I will always love them no matter what! You definitely have to tell your mom.
2007-01-19 07:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brown eyed girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your mom no matter how you feel, then you need to decide what in the world you are going to do as you are 13-a baby having a baby. GO TELL YOUR MOM now
2007-01-19 08:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well tell her now.. dont ya think shes gonna notice in a few months?
2007-01-19 08:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you are way to young to even think about having sex. you are still a child.its not that you cant tell your mom it is you dont want to tell your mom and you have to tell her. even if you want to get an abotrion( i dont reccomend it i personally think it is murder) you need her to sign for it. so tell her.
2007-01-19 07:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first lets get your spell checker working. Then I would let your parents know so they can have the sexual predator arrested for rape and maybe he can be hung in the public square for rape?
DID your parents not tell you it's wrong to have sex at 13 yrs old ?
2007-01-19 08:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by BoTToms UP 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋