We were dating for about 6 months prior to becomming boyfriend and girlfriend. Neither of us has even uttered the word "love" to each other. How do I know that he loves me? lol, I mean, what are some signs? And....how long should I wait to say that I love him? Should I wait for him to say it? Is it really love if either of us is scared to say it to eachother? lol, ok...no more questions. Guys?!
2007-01-19 06:49:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well....my old lady said it to me like 6 months before i said it to her
just don't pressure him into saying/feeling it...
it's stupid to put time limits on things like that
And depending on how much of a girl he is, he'll either say it whenever he feels like it, or say it just to please you...
i'm not sure you want the latter to be the way it goes down.
love is funny....nobody really knows for sure if it's the real thing
and nobody will ever know if it's the greatest love they'll ever feel
good luck though
2007-01-19 06:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by retired 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a believer that the man and woman are equal in the relationship, then go ahead and tell him that you "care" about him. You can take the first step but ease him into the word love. Let him think of it in steps. Tell him you care about him and then a few months later tell him that you love him. He might even bite on it earlier and tell you first.
2007-01-19 06:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Drew P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it to him, after you do it the first time it will seem normal. You need to say it, even if you are scared. Think of it like bungee jumping, it will be scary at first but fun and exciting the next time.
2007-01-19 06:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure you really mean it before you sat it, and dont pressure him to say it. wait for the right moment, there are no real signs to tell if her loves you or not. just be carefull. protect ur heart
2007-01-19 06:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bewbies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u he doesnt have to say it he will just tell u it straight from the heart,no time frame,my b/f and i have been together for a month and he just told me that he loves me,i love him too...whenever u are comfortable with him.let him know.good luck
2007-01-19 07:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your official!!...did you have a news conference and sign the proper paper work with the county? How do you even know if he loves you?
2007-01-19 06:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that you love him. Tell him. You should not tell him to expect for him to say it back to you, but maybe he is afraid to tell you. If you tell him, at least you will open the conversation up for discussion.
2007-01-19 06:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Shmesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesnt come in a certain amount of months or period of time, it just comes to you, and you will be able to tell if you love that person.
2007-01-19 06:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Priscilla R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust me if he doesn't love you then you to would be broken up by now just say how much he means to you
2007-01-19 06:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by Christian Guitarist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to shag on the side, and he should, don't pressure him to commit when all he wants is to spread his seed around.
2007-01-19 06:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Taco Pete 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋