When nobody likes you, what do you do?

Answer 1

I don't believe that 'nobody' likes you. I am sure that somebody likes you. One thing that keeps me grounded is that 'some people like you and some people don't'. And, there is absolutely nothing I can do about the ones who don't - its just life.

Warmth and Smiles.

Answer 2

You learn to have fun by yourself, and more importantly, you work on liking yourself. Start over with your behavior. Think through the social norms. Pay attention to how you greet people, and greet them normally. If you act normal, they will feel normal about you. Teach yourself to smile, and smile at people when you are talking or being with them. Do things in a normal fashion and don't wish or try to do things for gaining attention.
And don't fall for the notions or language of being "cool."
You can not be cool until you are comfortable with others. And, you can not be comfortable with others until you are comfortable with yourself. You can do it!
You can do more when people learn that you are not strange or draw the wrong attention.
Don't worry about what others think so much, but worry about what you think. You have a right to expect that you behave normally. Watch the in-crowd and how they act. Be polite and normal and in time you well be accepted, and then you can lighten up some, just some.
One more thing, don't judge people by the way they look, they are not usually what they appear to be, at least when they are young.

Answer 3

Everyone has a right to chose their own friends. You can't "make" them like you. And you can't be a friend to everyone you meet. People have to make choices, and they choose people they are compatible with and get satisfactions from hanging out with.

Your best course of action is simply to work on becoming your own best self. Don't try to be what THEY want you to be. Be the best self YOU want to be. Pursue your own interests to the maximum. Get involved in challenging projects, contribute to the community, do the right things, the hard things. Learn, learn, learn. Be your own best friend and do good things for yourself. Take a positive attitude and just be nice to people because they deserve it.

And guess what, it may take one or more years...you gotta be patient.. but eventually you'll be the kind of person a lot of people will want to know and hang out with. I guarantee it.

Answer 4

You try to become a better person if they don't like you because you are not a good person. If you are a good person, then just be friendly to people and they will be friendly back to you.

Answer 5

if u really care about it that much...try to look at urself from their point of view...maybe speak up a little bit...just put urself out there...

Answer 6

i dont talk to them...they'll just say negative things to you and make u feel sad...just ignore them like i do

Answer 7

try to figure out why, and see if you can change it. if not, say **** those bastards.

Answer 8

i go eat worms.