♥ is it selfish to only think of your own happines? but how strong is a love if you just let them go to someone else..?
2007-01-19 05:37:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
they say if you love something let it go if it comes back to you than it means so much more and meant to be..if they don't come back its because you're not their hapiness..i wouldnt be happy forcing some1 to be with me and having their phony love because they feel bad for me..like yea chase and fight for them but when the time is right you know when its right and u know when its too late...let it out..let trhem know how you feel..once and only once so atleast they know because you will than live in regret like what if what if....i say go for it..whats the worse that can happen...there is laos 50/50 they might actually feel the same way
2007-01-19 05:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Wanda L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If u dont have faith then it wont count number the place u bypass.. because of the fact as an Athiest.. like a candle, you purely get snuffed out whilst u die! in spite of if, if u are actually agnostic.. & thereby are no longer uncomplicated the existance of God, then I wouldnt project too plenty. the way I see it... if he's incredibly all forgiving, goodbye as u repent on ur day of justice... then u could desire to be positive! IF there is yet another place, then im notably specific that ur good, he/she will have the skill to look on the ideas u made in life & decide from that. there are a number of many non secular human beings in the international who're recommend & nasty & who even with being christian, dont should be forgiven. kick back.... wait until eventually it occurs & take care of it then. until eventually then, be a good man or woman!
2016-12-14 06:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I'd never give up on a certain person, but after 3 years of waiting I realized I was wasting my time. And naturally, she came around once she realized I was going to start looking elsewhere...
There are billions of people in this world, and probably thousands that you could fall in love with. Life is short.
2007-01-19 05:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh this is perfect...i am in this same situation right now.
if the person is happy with someone else. yes it can be selfish. CAN be didnt say it was.
this is how im feeling..he hardly knows me so i cant blame him for not liking me. and hes happy with his gf. but that doesnt mean i dont want to be with him. im gonna try to be the best woman i can, try to be the woman of his dreams and get him to notice me better whenever i see him. im not gonna make him try to break up with his gf..not make her look bad but make me look better. you know what i mean? i wouldnt be exactly squandering a relationship id just make another relationship look better.
so im not hating on her but ill never give up on my dream.
i dont see how thats selfish. it means i still have passion for him.
i think anyone who wants a certain person should be the same way. they should never give up on their dream lover but not get involved with the relationship. again just try to be the best person they can be and maybe just maybe everything will fall into place. maybe theyll be happy with you and then everyone will win.
but if they reject you in person (and not just imply that they dont want you) you might wanna back off a little and give em their space.
im not sure if i explained this right but i tried my best to answer it for people in general and in my situation at the same time..that way youd have a good example.
2007-01-19 07:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Garbo's snowflake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did do that with a boy I thought I really wanted to be with and it broke my heart when we broke up (long story) and a few months later I met my husband and this was 19 years ago, 20 in April, and we've been married 17 years of that time.
...sort of a happily ever after.
2007-01-19 05:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by LS 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It shows how strong your love is for that person..You want them to be happy right!
Everyone is different but I do think it is slightly selfish to think that way about someone you love!
2007-01-19 05:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY love someone, sure, you'd be trying to make yourself happy by being with them, but then you're not thinking of their feelings...and if they're not happy, in the end, you're not going to be happy. I guess real love is about being able to let go, too.
2007-01-19 05:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Oyster Kel 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You either love yourself enough to let them go or you love them enough to let them go. Either way if things between you are not working then you must love and respect each other enough to let each other go in order to be happy.
2007-01-19 05:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by j_goodwin27 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I loved like that once, and I had to let it go. It would have destroyed me. Thats not selfish, thats survival.
2007-01-19 05:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Fluffy Rover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is be selfish, but then after a while I wise up and let them move on and it so hurts
2007-01-19 05:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋