2007-01-19 05:16:28 · 26 answers · asked by don tito 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they are not in love. Saying "I love you" means "I think I love you, but don't believe me until I prove it to you" and faithfulness is the best proof of love, not the only one though. There are many more. Liking never means "loving" some one.
Love has become a meaningless word lately, any body says it when "we" need something from someone, something in a selfish way.
Be careful in your relationships, seek what is worth living for.
God Bless.
2007-01-19 05:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman can love the man they are with but still cheat. If they aren't getting what they need emotionally from their guy they might go looking for it from another. If you don't let ur girl know she's special she is going to fall for someone who does. I always look at this way, Men are visually attracted to other women, while women are attracted emotionally.
Thats why there are so many lame lines to pick up a girl. Thats why guys who chase girls who are involved with someone else usually tell the girl that her man don't love her.
2007-01-19 13:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman in love will not cheat. Maybe a man could be in love and cheat because they are so sexually and visually driven. Women are driven more by relationships. Therefore, if she is truly in love, she will not cheat. I suppose it's possible, though not likely.
Note: loving someone and being in love are different things.
2007-01-19 13:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love doesn't = sex..... You can fall head over heals in love with someone and not be physically attracted to them trust me it's true. This is why when people say physical attraction doesn't matter I can't help but think they are a little off. It's not everything but if you are not in the least attracted to the person you are with you will most likely run into these issues. I'm not terribly attracted to my spouse but I love him like you wouldn't believe. He is pretty great actually and he takes care of me we have 4 kids together who are very sweet and beautiful kids. yet sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to want sex. To be with someone who I was extremely attracted to. I stay faithful but I can't say I haven't been tempted and a lesser person in my situation may very well have given in. But I love my husband truely and honestly.
2007-01-19 13:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by rocknchickx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If women really love their husbands they will not cheat or even want to... Same way with the men .
2007-01-19 13:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love if you are cheating on the person you supposively love. If you love and care about someone you are honoring and respecting them.
2007-01-19 13:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Alapooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think she would be cheating if she were in love, or even loved someone. women cheat because they aren't getting something emotional from their significant other. she needs to feel safe to be able to communicate with her spouse, if she doesn't feel she can talk to him, she may start out with an emotional affair with someone, leading to more.
2007-01-19 13:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that people do not hold on to morals these days and Peoples words don't hold much value. No one is held accountable for there actions.
People have lost sight of treating others with kindness and treating them like you would like to be treated.
2007-01-19 13:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason men keep cheating when they say they are in love. Lack of self-confidence and self-esteem.
2007-01-19 13:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were in love. they wouldn't keep cheating. a 1 time lapse in judgment is one thing. but a repeated offense means that they know what they are doing and that they don't care.
2007-01-19 13:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋