2007-01-19 05:11:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, you mean the father of your child? Yes, Grow Up! How pathetic... Do yourself and your child a huge favor. Realize you are a mother and you have a responsibility....play day is over! Arm yourself with an education and let go of the "street" and ghetto slang.... You should want more for yourself and your baby! As for hating the father of your child...Absolutely, it is wrong! Your child deserves two parents...if you hate him, you send a message to your child that you also hate him/her. The child was made from both of you.... How sad, how sad that innocent children are placed in such tragic circumstances. Please grow up, for your child's sake.
2007-01-19 05:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by favrd1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he did. It is definitely okay to hate him. I don't have any kids, but some men don't know how to treat a woman (baby mama or not). Did you see the sh*t that CRUBUN left! He puts me in the mind of those men (don't know how to fu*king talk with RESPECT!!!) If you have a baby daddy like that, just take this as a learning experience and make better choices in men. It seems like everybody that answered this question thinks that you shouldn't hate him cause y'all slept together, but I bet half of them probably done slept with someone that they can't stand anymore. You just slipped up and got pregnant. Be more careful in the future! If you hate your baby daddy, them I say f*ck em...
2007-01-19 06:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Miss_Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is right and wrong for you can only be determined by you. Here is some food for thought--while "hating" remember that with out your babies daddy--you wouldn't have that precious gift. Remember that when you are "hating" don't project that to the child--they will form their own opinion over time--if he is a good father--let him be a good father. If he sucks, then they will find out on their own.
You don't have to like each other. What you do have to is be civil for the babies. You have to be thankful that you have this gift of a precious baby. I left my son's dad, he was a friggin' jerk, however I never bad mouthed him to my son. My son tells me, dad isn't my friend, he went away, and that is from my son who is autistic. They will figure it out--then it is his loss. Don't spend too much energy hating someone who gave you one of the best gifts you will ever have, besides, is he really worth it???
2007-01-19 05:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, let me get this right, you are asking if it's wrong to hate someone that you not only had sex with, but who just happens to be the father of your child.
It's not wrong, it's just weird. How could you hate someone like that? It's really not worth your time or energy to hate someone you are going to be connected to for the rest of your life
2007-01-19 05:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's neither right or wrong, it just is. Just don't let that get between your child and their dad. It's not the kids fault that you two can't work things out.
2007-01-19 05:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have been nice if you'd thought about this before you brought an innocent child in the world.
2007-01-19 05:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a thin line between love and hate.
2007-01-19 05:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not when you figure having the kids is the ONLY right thing hes EVER done! (But, don't tell the kids that!!)
2007-01-19 05:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... hate will get YOU nowhere.
And, do you really want to poison your child's world with hate?
IF you do, please put it up for adoption, as the world already has enough haters, and we do not need you raising another one.
2007-01-19 05:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, cause unfortunately you have to put up with him for a long time to come.
2007-01-19 05:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋