i feal like hes apart of ,y life but im not alwwoed to be apart of his, his, but his ex can see guys an they can meet the kids. help im at my wits end not noing what to do
2007-01-19 05:05:26 · 6 answers · asked by piggypinky@btinternet.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Then you partner has to be more assertive towards his ex, what is good enough for her is good enough for him and he should tell her so. He cant go through ur relationship having his kids hidden from you.
2007-01-19 05:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why has he met your kids so soon. he is dating you not them. What if it does not work out; how confused will they be if you
meet someone else? Sounds like his ex wants things all her way. has she given any specific reason? In the meantime you will just have to be aptient. too many men introduce their girlfriends to their children much to soon so look on this as being a good thing.
2007-01-19 06:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult and ask to meet her - on neutral ground and talk things through with her - gain her trust (genuinely).
Be honest and friendly.
If she has her childrens best interests @ heart then she'll hear you out and be honest as well - you never know you might gain a friend and learn a few things as well.
2007-01-19 05:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he had a lot of girlfriends before you? Perhaps her children have been messed about by other girlfriends and she is trying to protect them now. There is no reason why you should be entitled to see his children even if you are engaged to him but when does he get access to them - surely you could meet them then if it's such a worry for you.
2007-01-22 04:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by mary b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are meant to be 50 50....tell him that you feel left out and would like to meet them some day....don't pressure him tho..he may get the hump...7 months is not hat long but still...it should be equals between you both
2007-01-19 05:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that much of a deal,
You are dating him not his kids
2007-01-19 05:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋