How do you save a marriage that is being destroyed by a lack of communication.?

Question

How do you get someone to understand that you are serious about leaving them if they don't understand why you want to leave them.

Answer 1

You talk! You talk, talk and talk, and after you've talked, you talk some more. Try to find ways to do it, but don't approach it from an accusitory manner, because then that will put the other on the defense and then anything you do or say will all be moot. Try going to a councilor, try going to your priest/elder, do whatever it takes. If you want to save it that bad, you can, providing she is willing to work with you.

God bless!

Answer 2

You try to save it by you starting to try to communicate to your spouse.... Ask your spouse how their day went and take them nice things and do nice things for them without wanting anything in return. This is really no reason for leaving or divorce... More then likely you will need a marriage class or counseling to learn how to communicate with each other better. Become a good listener too as this is very important in communicating and dont just be the one wanting to be heard.
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Answer 3

If you want to save your marriage, go straight to counseling. Get someone who's going to help you hear each other and communicate what's in your heart.

Answer 4

Maybe you two should try some sort of marriage counseling. It could help both of you to see the other's point of view by having a mediator.

Answer 5

Does it really matter "why" if you are really going to leave? Just say goodbye and go. The other person may be hurt for a moment, but he/she will be fine.

Answer 6

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