what if he isn't,what are the signs? should i confront him?and how.he has accused me of cheating,when really i wasnt.I recently found out some dirt on him.my trust for him isnt there anymore,but then again i really love him.so im totally confused,and my thoughts are twisted.
2007-01-19 04:56:42 · 7 answers · asked by borimami_luscious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when we don't really know something, the closest thing we can come to knowing is having insight or your intuition. if u don't trust him your intuition must be telling u something. yes there is nothing but confusion when we don't know something but can feel it. usually when a man begins to cheat, he sort of begins to disconnect from u, not liking the same things, no interest in the things he use to be. after awhile he will pick fights, fault find, and name call, and begin to blame u for everything, he is trying to justify what he is feeling about u, by vilifying u in his mind. all begins with what he is telling himself, right or wrong it's his reality. he may accuse u of cheating. after awhile it is clear there is a lack of respect for u, and the fighting starts, sometimes he will even pick a fight with u, to justify leaving so he can be with the other woman. he is often silent, communication comes to a standstill, and it's almost as if they aren't even in your life anymore. he may begin to pay closer attention to his hygiene, buy new clothes, and go out with friends more, but never asking u if u want to go too.
2007-01-19 05:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but when the trust is gone there is nothing left . You need to file for divorce . How can you love someone that has cheated on you . They are not worthy of your love. Yes your thoughts are twisted because he twisted them . do yourself a favor and file for divorce . You dont deserve this . you would be better off alone . good luck honey .
2007-01-19 14:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first sign is he is accusing you, when you have done nothing.
His guilt is making him not trust you.
He needs help if you love him, try not to get too emotional. Get some professional counceling.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-19 13:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He start to accuse you of cheating
2. He might start avoiding you or some men because of guilt will start to treat you extra special, so you won't find out.
3. When he starts lying about where he his going.
2007-01-19 13:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay a lot of attention to how he acts towards you, do you kiss as much as before this happened, does he still seem attracted to you? if the answer is no then somethng is wrong. do your best to hold yourself together through all this and whatever happens dont let it tear you apart.
2007-01-19 13:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by binky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS HE ACTING FUNNY OR DOING THINGS HE WOULDN'T NORMALLY DO? IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUBT IN YOUR MIND THAT HE IS BEING FAITHFUL, YOU NEED TO START SPYING.
2007-01-19 13:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by jessica w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU FEEL IN YOU HEART THAT HE CHEATING THEN MOST LIKLY HE IS AND I DON'T MEAN WHERE YOU MIGHT JUST THINK THAT HE IS YOU FEEL IT DEEP IN YOUR HEART THEN HE IS
2007-01-19 13:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋